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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 6
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
False advertisement disclaimer: my profile does not distribute chocolate. But if you're cool, I'm sure that we can work something out.

I consider myself to be a genre of one. I am a fierce individualist and not afraid of who I am while also growing continually. I am laid-back and people tend to gravitate to me easily but I quickly distance myself from people who cause problems. I am myself 100% of the time and not easily shaken. I hang out with people who are cool with me and I with them, and share a common, big-picture view on the world.

My friends and family are important to me and I have a lot of close relationships. My friends are all different; some are extremely artistic, others are into sports, and some are even in politics. I think this has rounded out my view of the world pretty well- which is always a good policy.

I own a music teaching studio in downtown Plainfield where I teach guitar. I play guitar in both a death metal band (and I'm not talking about boys in skinny jeans here, I mean the scary kind of death metal) and in my church band. So ya that's unusual I guess. I am also a stock market investor. I play competitive hockey a couple times a week, maintain a huge library of military history books, and I love movies (especially sci-fi/fantasy stuff). I have a bachelors degree in video game art and design and I have been an artist all of my life. I go out fairly often but I love a good night in- cooking dinner and watching a good movie or hanging out with friends.

As far as how I am personally, I don't do much without thinking it through pretty substantially but I can be very decisive (small business ownership skills I think). I'm also a problem solver and I don't get hung up on keeping score (if you know what I mean). What I'm getting at here, is that this isn't my first rodeo and I don't respond favorably to mind-games. I want a mature relationship with a woman who is her own, strong person. Making good cookies and being a good kisser is also appreciated.

Well that pretty much sums it up. If you want to talk or hang out then feel free to hit me up!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Read all that crap above.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Adapting and overcoming. I am also extremely perceptive. Over thinking things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall and my voice is super deep.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Probably a bunch of stuff you've never heard of. 5 bucks if you have heard of Morbid Angel, Down, Death, and 50 bucks if you like Days of the New. I read military history and have recently gotten into some comics after seeing the new Dredd movie (which kicks ass). I have a thing for the old black and white horror movies (Dark Shadows lately) and really cheesy movies too. If you like Mystery Science Theater then you're super cool.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of existence. Seriously. If you want to have a lengthy conversation on the topic I'd be game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing hockey or chilling out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will actually admit a whole lot (but you have to earn it).

I'm secretly looking for someone who can prove there is providence to relationships and not just randomness. But I suppose that's what we all wonder isn't it? I do have a romantic side....
You should message me if
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You want something different than other guys, you want a stable relationship, you're intelligent, you take care of yourself, and you're not crazy. Or at least as crazy as I am.