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24 / F / Bisexual / Single

San Francisco, California

Her Details

Last Online
May 11
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), LISP (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am a transgenderqueerish person looking for love in all the wrong places (the Internet). I listed myself as female because there were only two choices. Someone on the OK Cupid staff should read some goddamn Judith Butler.

Things I like include: cycling, whimsy, doodling on my guitar, installation art, naps, long, exploratory walks, long-form journalism, and listening to music mindfully.

I just moved to SF from Montana... I'm still adjusting to the city and looking to meet people to have good times (sexy, or otherwise) with.
What I’m doing with my life
-Deprogramming myself of the heteronormative bullshit that my mind has absorbed via osmosis and changing my image to better reflect my gender identity.
-Striving towards satori through Emacs and functional programming mastery (because when queers program, they do it with a LISP :) )
-Watchin' movies & shit with xuelann.
-Making stuff. Like a chess set made out of wine bottle corks, or beer, or moussaka.

I also spend ~8hrs a day doing work for a job I have. I'm a web developer for a cycling-related non-profit in Montana, but I try not to think about that. I see money the same way Mario sees those giant floating gold coins: they can add to your life, but they're a pain in the ass to get, and your time is much better spent looking for raccoon suits and fire flowers.
I’m really good at
When you think you're good at things, it keeps you from getting better at them.
That said, I can type really fast, and run a pretty long ways when I'm in good shape.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall and skinny and fidgety.
And if you're just getting around to noticing things about me, we've probably just met, so I look nervous and distant ( don't read into it too much, I probably like you).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Marcel Proust, Oliver Sacks, Douglas Hofstadter, DFW, space operas, hard SF, Adventure Time,Twin Peaks, The Wire, Look Around You! , duets (Ella & Louis, Tom & Elis), Chopin, Tchaikovsky, Stravinsky, Schoenberg (but only when I'm stoned), Purity Ring, A Tribe Called Quest, Lavender Diamond, Kanye, Ariel Pink, Panda Bear, TV On the Radio, Frank Ocean, & whatever else the Pitchfork says my demographic should like (sadly, they're usually right).
The six things I could never do without
This question sucks, and everybody on OKC knows it. It kinda sounds like a Scattergories question, so I'm going to treat it as such to demonstrate how hard I ball at Scattergories. Just got out my 20-sided letter die and my lil plastic hourglass.
The letter is... C.
Go!!!!!
- Carbon compounds
- Coffee ( like everybody else on this website).
- Chopin
- Computers
- Conversation
- California
Time's up!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Improving the decor of my sweet apt.
- Demons (Maxwellian & Cartesian).
- Quantum Information ( I don't really know that much about it, but then again, it's all about unknowability, right?)
- My friends.
- Gender.
- What I will think about my present self twenty years from now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out w/ you, and having a wonderful time.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
-You think gender is more essay question than multiple choice.
f you want to make something w/ me.
-If you want to make my day.
- You don't have a weird complex about your hetero (or for that matter, homo) identity that being with a trans person brings out.