I am honest and queer and soft-spoken and sarcastic.
I go home to portland quite often so if you ask me to hang out in eugene and I can't that might be the reason why.
It is also hard for me to initiate contact with people cause I'm a shy/afraid lil bb so just tell me you want to meet up and I will do my darndest to get that set up because I really can't tell if I like people or not before I've met them.
Also I am into casual sex but that doesn't automatically make me into you.
Also I've noticed a lot of guys message me talking about casual sex and whatnot and I go to their profile and it says they're only into dating and friends...?? This makes me uncomfortable and I don't know how to respond.
ALSO my average time for responding to a message is like 12 hours so if you say "hey wanna hang out tonight" I'll probably read it after the fact and feel bad. If you want to meet up I'll probably give you my number.