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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:31pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
English, French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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[Hi there, Berlin! Though I live in Seattle, I'm so terribly excited to visit 22-29 November and hope to make friends with fun and interesting Berliners. It is always more interesting to hit bars restaurants, live music, parks, and running routes with locals. Any ambassadors out there? I'm going to be doing more work in Europe these days, so having local friends would make life *much* more interesting! Plus, you will have a lifelong friend who lives on a Seattle houseboat. Everybody wins!]

I love spilling beyond neat boundaries while challenging assumptions (others’ and mine). I am happy to have gained a great deal of high-quality friends, knowledge, experiences, and stories throughout my life, and I look forward to more. I try to live my life like I travel… prepare well, plan only some of the major waypoints, relax along the way, and enjoy the small details and unplanned opportunities that come along. In general, I find that life is most interesting when saying 'yes' to things more often than not. I love having exceptionally high expectations and love finding them occasionally exceeded.

Oh, I'm kind of hilarious. Not in a self-summary kind of way... more of an insightful and/or oddball comment woven artfully though our conversation kind of way. Also, stories like when I accidentally slept with my best friend's dad or when I shut down a building by touching a Big Red Button.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have lived in 10 states and also Paris, but I am thrilled to say that I have set down roots in Seattle over the last few years. I still love to travel in the U.S. and abroad, but it is nice to know where home and friends are. A sister in NYC and ‘rents in Toledo make sure that I get around.

I'm fortunate to love my job, though I keep it in perspective. I'm 62% CFO of an engineering company (current job), 2/3 Paris bike tour guide (past job), and a t.b.d. part documentary filmmaker.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Rolling with it... whatever "it" may be.
Being present.
Being GGG.
[Apparently not everyone reads Savage Love in Seattle.?. Good, Giving, and Game.]
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends on whether I'm walkin' towards you or away, amiright?

Oh, I mean, a smile.?.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Recent favorites... All the Pretty Horses, Blink, Middlesex, Unbearable Lightness of Being.

Royal Tenenbaums, Secretary, Princess Bride. My girl friends know that I am always up for a chick flick, and I also love a good documentary.

I enjoy a great meal out, but I also enjoy cooking with someone else. I like pretty much all of the foods, but if your partner must like beets, then we may not work out.

Head and the Heart, Radiohead, Alt-J, Johnny Cash, Macy Gray, etc. I hit a live music show or some other performance every couple weeks... always up for a good idea!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My house fire provided pleasant confirmation that material things really aren't that important. So...

Great conversation
Quiet time and no conversation
(Think of the different combinations!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fun things to do with friends on a paddle wheel houseboat.
Maintenance to do on paddle wheel houseboat.
The relentless pursuit of contentment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner with friends, enjoying the reasons we live in Seattle, on my way someplace, already someplace, quiet night after having been someplace.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have to control my urges to use parentheses and ellipses.
You should message me if
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You're game.

Also, if you suffer from the (apparently) common fatigue that results from seeing endless shirtless dude pics and receiving "yer hot, wanna f*ck?" messages.