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  • Ages 29-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Today – 7:35am
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6' 1" (1.85m)
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Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hello! Thanks for dropping in. Here's how I'm different from the undoubtedly wonderful dudes smirking to my left and right. I mean, yes, I am into many of the same things that a lot of guys are into - steak (steak!), football (Go Ducks!), action movies (Kung Fu! Car chases! One liners!), rock and roll (It ain't noise pollution!), fitness (Do it again! And faster this time!), my family (The best!), my friends (Also the best!), and the great outdoors (Rivers and mountains and lakes, oh my!). I don't really drink (what I know about beer and wine could be summed up quite nicely on the back of a stamp), but aside from that, yeah, I'm a dude.

Here's what I think sets me apart.

This summer I spent three days being brutalized by a group of current and former Navy SEALS at an event called Kokoro - basically a civilian version of the SEALS' infamous Hell Week. 53 hours, no sleep, very little rest, most of it spent cold, wet and covered in sand and all of it under intense physical strain and mental stress. 31 started, 17 finished. The point of it (aside from just basic, run-of-the-mill masochism), is to find the dark place, face the doubts, face the fears, face the pain and find out how hot your fire really burns. It's not about some macho, because-it-was-there nonsense; it's about reaching the point where you can't do it, and then doing it anyway, all the while doing your best to take the focus off yourself and take care of the guy or gal next to you. In essence, become the best version of yourself that you are capable of becoming.

This leads me to difference #2. I believe that service to others is the greatest calling that there is and it is service to which I've devoted my professional life. Specifically, I coach high school kids. It's a privilege and a joy and I love going to work every day, not simply because the work itself is challenging, humbling and fulfilling (and fun!), but because I know that I have the chance to make a positive difference in the life of every kid who walks in our doors.

So... Bottom line, I'm a big goofy guy with a dry wit, a love of chocolate and a tendency to communicate in movie quotes who is doing everything he can to let his little light shine. If any of that sounds good to you, I'd love to hear from ya.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to change the world, one L.A. teenager at a time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being on time, tying my shoes (almost never miss!), picking up heavy stuff, being a friend, my job, cracking wise, navigating (except in Ohio - always get lost in Ohio), listening, solving problems, being persistent, playing "Wild Horses" by the Rolling Stones, maintaining my cool (such as it is) and writing long lists of things I'm really good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been trying to cultivate a good Clint Eastwood squint, so I'm hoping that jumps out, but the reality is that people probably notice my smile, which more than one friend has characterized as "s*$#-eating."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I read like a fiend, so I could go on and on. Favorite all time, though, we'll go with "The Lord of the Rings," "Catch-22," and "The Authoritative Calvin and Hobbes."
Movies: "Star Wars," "Aliens," "The Princess Bride," "The Shawshank Redemption," "Better Off Dead."
Music: Rock and roll, baby, rock and roll. Everything from Elvis and Chuck Berry through Dylan, the Beatles and the Stones to Pearl Jam and Nirvana and back again. The louder the better.
Shows: I'm a sucker for crime procedurals.
Food: Pretty simple. Try not to eat anything with ingredients in it that I can't pronounce or identify, though I also have a sweet tooth the size of Utah.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fresh air and sunshine
Large bodies of water, the calmer the better
My crazy but wonderful parents and three siblings!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lunch. Before lunch I think about what I'm going to have for lunch. After lunch I think about how much I enjoyed lunch and congratulate myself on a good lunch choice. Is there anything better than lunch?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends on the time of year. There are times when I'm out of town a fair bit on weekends, but if I'm home, I like a nice dinner out, a movie, or, if it's been one of those weeks, a night catching up on the ol' DVR and an early bedtime.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The first concert I ever went to was a double bill of M.C. Hammer and Vanilla Ice, Ice, Baby...
You should message me if
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I don't have an exhaustive laundry list of must haves and what not. It's ultimately about chemistry in the end, so I keep an open mind. That said, I tend to be attracted to whip smart, athletic, confident, down to earth and funny women who would rather be hiking in the hills behind the winery than sitting on a stool inside it.