31 Courtenay, British Columbia, CA
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My self-summary
Exceptionally Unexceptional.

CIS sexual, but not CIS gendered? If that's a thing... Maybe I'm just a straight queer... Is that a thing? Anyway, I like being male, but despise being constrained to strictly alpha male definitions of the masculine.

Sexually attracted to effeminate persons regardless of sex or gender. *shrugs* Nothing against male presenting or strong persons... Just too many hangups about alpha sexuality to begin with and haven't sorted them all out.

Looking for singles, couples, and folks in general who are looking for friends too. And hey, if sexy things happen, they happen. If they don't, then I've made some new friends. If you want to be friends, or share the odd adventure or story I would totally be into that.
What I’m doing with my life
Slowly realizing that the amount of intensity I do anything with is probably more to do with my ADHD and Borderline Personality Disorder than I would like to admit. So I guess from day to day I'm pretty much trying to take the positives from those traits (which are pretty awesome) and learn how to protect myself and others from the downsides (which are not so awesome).

If you don't know what Borderline is, give this a read:
I’m really good at
- Bicycling
- Having ideas about any subject (or making one up)
- Talking really fast
- Cooking
- Fixing things
- Making excuses to not be inside
The first things people usually notice about me
My beard. For some weird reason it's dark brown even though I'm blonde.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Lately I have been fawning over Rick Riordan's entire universe. I also read a lot of non-fiction and books about books.
Movies: Art Films and Indie stuff. I think Princess Bride goes without saying. I'm really sad that Netflix has gone away from a lot of the really sexy and romantic indie stuff that they used to have.
Music: Anything from Nightwish to Gordon Lightfoot
Food: I just love good food. I watch the food network constantly. But if I had to live off of only one kind of food... It would be Thai. The choice between stir-fry, coconut curry, and roast meat dishes pretty much covers everything.
Beer: Dark Lagers and Ales, Malty Stouts, Porters, and Weiss.
The six things I could never do without
Toilet paper

Seriously. Everything else I can figure out how to make or get by without. But to even live for a day without TP... No thanks.

Unless of course, the world has embraced the bidet and that is why toilet paper is obsolete.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The three women who love me and don't seem to mind that I'm dorky, problematic, and often fail at being an adult. They are amazing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting at home with a dark beer and math problems. Cause I'm cool like that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was chased up a tree by a cow once.
You should message me if
You've suffered through loving an abused rescue dog that never quite learns to trust again. And it would help if you are poly, poly friendly, or at the very least not looking for someone to cohabitate with.