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46 Antwerp, Belgium Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 24, 2009
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English, Afrikaans

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have just deleted my first attempt at a self-summary.

So I'll try this instead:

Three screen names you've had
1. severinskiss
2. sididis
3. pumpkinhead

Three other places on the interweb where you'll find me:

Three physical things you like about yourself
1. eyes
2. my hair, no baldness yet *checks mirror quickly - nope all there still*
3. Mr knobby :)

Three physical things you don't like about yourself
1. nose hair, whats that about?
2. the chubbage round me middle
3. the hunch and the staggering limp, the way the knuckles of my left hand drag across the cobbles, and the way drool constantly dribbles down my chin. :p

Three parts of your heritage
1. Irish-Swiss
2. British
3. German Jewish, yep thats another boat-load the Fascist fucks lost

Three things that scare you
1. Clowns and Blondes
2. Poverty
3. Doom 3 *eeeks* I just can't play that game, although I beat the shit out of Fear and Quake 4

Three of your everyday essentials
1. Coffee
2. Chocolate
3. Suicide Girls; Gods Girls; evil looking totty pics

Three things you are wearing right now
1. black boxers
2. black T-shirt
3. a smile

Three of your favorite bands/musical artists
1. Psychophile
2. Combichrist
3. kIEW

Three of your favorite songs (this week)
1. Glis: October Skies
2. Modulate: Skullfuck
3. Jabberwock: Le Freak

Three new things you want to try in the next 12 months
1. painting on canvas
2. Djing electroclash
3. Organizing Parties

Three things you want in a relationship
1. Wuv
2. Mutual Support
3. Freaky sex

Two truths and a lie
1. Gravity falls
2. Hope Floats
3. The Ice Age cometh

Three things about the opposite sex that appeal to me
1. boobs
2. their innate softness um both opposite sex and boobs that is
3. their fondness for shoes

Three of your favorite hobbies
1. Computer games
2. Grabbing and collecting moozic
3. Dancing my ass off

Three things you want to do really badly right now
1. Get a macmuffin and some coffee
2. draw something
3. Eat Who Roast- Beast

Three careers you're considering
1. Foreign Legionaire
2. Digital Artist
3. Owning a bookstore/coffeshop

Three places I want to go on vacation
1. Leipzig (Deutschland)
2. Whitby (Yorkshire. UK)
3. Tokyo (Japan)

Three things to do before I die
1. Write a book/ draw a graphic novel
2. Make a movie
3. Have another exhibition

Three celeb crushes
1. Isabelle Adjani
2. Eliza Dashku
3. Gina Gershon

I am artistic, curious, and knowledgable
What I’m doing with my life
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I studied Fine Art at university but I've spent most of my life working with books. When I finally having become disenchanted with the book trade I moved on. I'm currently here in Belgium working in Finance, its early days yet but I look to be able to make good money out of it. I am creative and have been known to draw or paint on occasion, I also take photos and DJ when I get a chance to.

Right now I'm questioning what to do with the rest of my life, I'm starting to think a legacy is important.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being there: I'm incredibly loyal, reliable friend and a good listener, the friendships and relationships I make last.
Making people laugh, I'm good with wordplay, although admittedly my humor is often dark.
Problem solving, I'm quite logical, and can creatively devise solutions.
Drawing, I don't do it enough (muses apply here)- examples of what I do are at:
Dancing, I'm a dancefloor dervish but do not do ball room!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm six foot tall, but like wearing industrial style boots which add a bit of height. I primarily wear black or shades of grey. I still have my own hair its brown, thick and grows like a weed, no baldness on the horizon (phew). Up until a year or so ago it was just above waist length but I cut it when I changed careers. I've been told by almost everyone I meet look younger than I actually am, I don't see this as a bad thing. I also am told that they know someone who looks just like me, although I have only ever found that to be true once, and now he's a very good friend of mine. I have blue/green/grey eyes (depending on mood), and hope that they show I'm intelligent. I've been told I've got good shoulders whatever that means?? My body is slim but not trim, although I do walk a lot, so I have good legs. In spite of my subculture I have steadfastly refused to get tattooed even though I have done design work for tattooists. My reasoning is that I could never get used to seeing the same image day after day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:Anything by Tanith Lee; Raymond Chandler; Micheal Moorcock; Kim Newman; Neil Gaiman; Alan Moore; Storm Constantine; Thomas Liggotti; China Mieville; HP Lovecraft; Philip K Dick; Garth Nix; Jeff Noon. For more info goto: LibraryThing:

Movies: (The shortlist) 200 cigarettes; 24 Hour Party People; 5th Element; Akira; American History X; Apocalypse Now; Ben X; The Big Sleep, Blade Runner;Blue Velvet Bound; Brazil; Brotherhood of the Wolf; Buffalo 66; Casablanca; Cat People; Chasing Amy; Clerks, Cloverfield; Cool World; Crash; Crazy Monkey:Straight Outta Benoni; The Cube; Crying Freeman; The Dark; Darkness; Dark City; Dark Water; Dead Fish; Dead Presidents; Deep Water; Diabolique; Dobermann; Doctor Strangelove; Dogma; Eastern Promises;Elfin Lied; Empire Records;Employee of the Month; Enemy at the gates; Eraserhead; Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind; Evil Dead - trilogy; Fall From Grace; Fox Fire; From Hell; furi kuri; Gangster No. 1; Gia; Grandma's Boy; Great Rock n Roll Swindle; The Grudge; Hard Boiled; Highway; Intolerance; The Italian Job (Old and new versions); The Jacket; Jacob's Ladder; Johnny Mnemonic; LA Confidential; Lain; Land of the Dead; Layer Cake; Leon; Lords of Dogtown; Lost Boys; Lost Highway;Love Kills; Matador; Mallrats; Miller's Crossing;Near Dark; Night Watch; Nightmare Before Xmas; New Boy; Night Watch; Nosferatu Original and Klaus Kinski version; Once a Thief; Party Monster; Pauly Shore is Dead; The Quick and the Dead; Repoman; Rocky Horror Picture Show; Rushmore; Saw ; Serenity; SFW; Shiner; Sin City; Skeleton Key; Something Wild; Space Odyssey 2001; Spice World; Sponge Bob Squarepants; Suburbia; Suicide Club; Tattoo; Twelve Monkeys; The Village; Year of the Gun; V for Vendetta; Videodrome; etc

Television: American Gothic; Angel; Babylon 5; Battlestar Galactica; Black books; Blue Murder; Brimstone; Bugs; Buffy the Vampire Slayer; Commander in Chief;Crossing Jordan; Dark Angel;Drawn together; Eureka; Everwood; Firefly; Freakylinks; Gilmore Girls;Invader Zim; Las Vegas; League of Gentlemen; Little Britian; Mighty Boosh; Navy NCIS; Numb3rs; Once a Thief; Reaper; Supernatural; Stacked; The 4400; The Prisoner; The Tribe; Twin Peaks; Veronica Mars; VIP; Weeds; Wild Palms

Music:And Also The Trees; Android Lust; Angelspit; Angels on Acid; Apop; Arkham Asylum; Ayria; Big Black; Black Tape for a Blue Girl; Coil; Chemical Brothers; Combichrist; Covenant; Current 93; Deathboy; Death in June; Devision; Diamanda Galas; Die Form; Diorama; Diva Destruction; The Droidz; Einsturzende Neubauten; Electralane; Fischer Spooner; Gene Serene; Glis; Halou; Hanzel Und Gretel; Haus Arafna; The Horrorist; Hypertraxx; I am X; Idiot Stare; Implant;Jabberwock; khz; KIEw; KMFDM; Ladytron; Laibach; Lycia; Master/Slave Relationship; Meat Beat Manifesto; Mighty Boosh songs; Mindless Self Indulgence; Modulate; Necro Stellar; Neophyte; Nick Cave in all manifestations dating back to Boys Next Door; Novus; Plastic Noise Experience; Psychophile; Pussy Galore; Pzycho Bitch; Red Zone; Robots in Disguise;Revolver 1010; Rotersand; Rotterdam Terror Corps; Schwarz Stein; Sex Gang Children; Skazi; Sleeping Dogs Wake; Shnarph!; Soman; Some Girl; Sonic Youth;Stainless.4571; Straftanz; Swans; Tarantella Serpentine;Technoir; Teknoist; Thought Criminals, Thrill Kill Kult; Virgin Prunes; UV; Young Gods; Zombie Girl; Zombie Nation; Xotox

Food: Good wholesome hearty food: Steak & chips; Sausage and Mash; Spag-bol; Steak and Kidney Pie; Lasagne; Curry (Thai or Indian), Chinese food. I have a sweet tooth, and love anything sweet: chocolates, candy, deserts, cakes etc. Although weirdly enuff I can't stand sugar in beverages so I'll only ever drink diet cola. Diet Pepsi rocks as does Diet Dr Pepper!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a PC with Internet access, Music, chocolate(good thing I'm in Belgium huh), Books, A TV with movie channels, a sketchpad with lots of pencils
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A novel I've started to write.

Where it all went wrong.

Her and us
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Clubbing or recovering from a bad week. I often end up going out with my housemates to small bars or restaurants, the plus side is the beer is great, the downside is here in Belgium they tend to be very smokey. I mean really smokey, like they've never heard of extractor fans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My wife died of post-op complications last Saturday 2nd May 2009, we were seperated, but it still hurts like hell thats she's gone. Been crying a lot these last few days
You should message me if
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You are a positive; fun; warm; intelligent; bright; optimistic; cheerful; vivacious; sexy; spontaneous; energetic person. You should also have an eclectic taste in music; movies and books, I find geek girls very sexy. Split or borderline personalities and manic depressives need not bother to apply, I've had that in spades and do not want any more thank you. Right now I'm looking for someone to help cheer me up and get me back to who I was. I'm all up for adventures.