A good man. Hard to find.
To my mind, there are a few basic questions that are good, preliminary indicators of compatibility (or lack thereof). So in the interest of helping your decision making, I am Pro-choice, Anti-gun (or assault rifle), for Marriage Equality, and a Liberal. As for religion, I will respect your choices and trust you will do likewise with mine.
I'm not into NASCAR, Harleys, nor am I into the country club or golf.