Coconutjo
39 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA
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My self-summary
About me:

Recently sold my apartment to fund a life of world travel. While not working a normal job, I'll be figuring out ways to get paid to write. I have a big long list of places to see in the world, and I'm tired of working in an office. There is just too many experiences and people and places in the world for me to ever be settled.

My most recent major accomplishment-- finished and uploaded my first erotic novella! Super proud of myself, but finding the marketing is waaaaaay harder and more time consuming than the actual writing.

I've spent the past few years indulging in my varied interests: graduate studies in sexuality; psychology; aromatherapy; soap making; and writing. I also pole dance, would love to study wine, more sexuality.....the list is endless.

In my spare time, I read, take dance classes, and enjoy good wine and dinners. I generally spend my time with a few close friends instead of a large group of acquaintances, but I do love the occasional wrap party or shinding.

I thrive on change and crave adventure. This translates into the occasional period of restlessness in my life. I’ve changed careers (teaching, film, entrepreneur), my province and country of residence (Alberta, Japan, Alberta, BC). I love travel and road trips.

I like nice shoes and wine and dinners out. As well as massages. And Netflix. And pedicures. And books. I love reading.

In my love life, this love of change has led to all kinds of experimentation and a large degree of openness. Ultimately, I don’t believe sexual fidelity=emotional fidelity, but that’s a place to journey to together in whatever way works for both of us.

Basic stats. You are:

1) between 30-42ish
2) have an established career and are financially secure
3) do not have sole custody of any children
4) are somewhat feminist in that you won't try to slut shame me, take care of me, own me, be uncomfortable with my success, or have a double standard for male vs female behaviour, or think I have some sort of obligation to reply to your message.

Also like change and adventure, but realize the people on your journey are important. You’re passionate about what you do, and educated. You can make plans, make a decision, communicate what you want. You’re ethical. You’ll get dirty when it’s called for. You’re kind to the less fortunate and like puppies. You know what you need to nurture your mind, body, and soul and do it regularly. You are not religious (total deal breaker). You know there’s much much more to this world than can ever be communicated in word or pictures. You like travel and are up for getaways and adventures whenever possible, be it a weekend in a campsite, a 5 start resort in Mexico, or wandering the streets of Paris. You value freedom of choice and expression and know your way isn’t the only or best way. And, the intangible, you have chemistry with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Nothing and everything. Right now I'm in a transitional phase-moving into career #3 and being self employed. Also enjoying all the free learning and classes the Internet provides.
I’m really good at
-trying new things (I thrive on change)
-writing
The first things people usually notice about me
Positive attitude, intelligence, charm and of course stunning good looks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All over the map on books and movies--I tend to immerse myself in one genre/actress/author for a while then switch. Generally I like horror, thrillers, and drama. Food--atmosphere is almost as important as good quality food. I LOVE meat. And cheese. And wine. With candles and good company....bliss.
The six things I could never do without
wine, cheese, book, pedicured toes, lip balm, I know I should put friends and family but they aren't things, so hmmm, deodorant.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Relationships, sexual/gender politics, self identity, socialization, decorating, dreaming about being a spy, future plans and possibilities......I'm told I think too much. But I like spending time in my head. It's fun in there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having wine and tapas with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing online :)
You should message me if
You're also interested in the road less traveled.
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