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29 M Carbondale, IL

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–38
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  • Who are single
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Last Online
Today – 8:13am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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Apparently I'm a coffee snob, so that's what a friend suggested when I decided I absolutely had to change my username. I may be a snob, but it's good-natured (I hope, anyway).

I'm originally from Indiana. I moved to Boston for grad school, but now I'm in Illinois for a second round of grad school. I write this because I feel far more at home in a big city like Boston than I do in a small town. Anyway... I finished my Masters degree in philosophy (in Boston), and am now working on a PhD in the same. I spend a lot of time reading, but I also enjoy getting out and having adventures. I, like seemingly everyone on this website, like running and being active. My dog Lexie is my running buddy.

Both my best friend and my dog are allergic to peanuts/peanut butter. Both are also unable to swim and ride a bicycle (not that unusual for my dog, but for a person...)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm back in school for a PhD in philosophy. I primarily work in ontology and the various reactions to metaphysics that popped up in the 20th century, however I also enjoy other areas of philosophy. I currently TA, which means I teach 96 students--spread across four different discussion classes--all about the joys of formal logic. I'm enjoying teaching/TAing far more than I expected.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Brewing beer, skiing, playing games that don't involve math, trivia, poker, and multi-tasking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I have really short hair?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(At a certain point, people move from having what they "like" and their favorite things define them to their identity being about who they are and more importantly, what they do. I'm looking for someone with an identity composed of what they do and how they treat others rather than someone who defines themselves by their "likes." That written, here are some of mine...)

Books: A Song of Ice and Fire, Great Gatsby (I fit stereotypes sometimes...), House of Leaves, anything by Chuck Klosterman, Heart of Darkness/Things Fall Apart (I think they should be read together), The Giver, My Name Is Asher Lev, Anything by Norman Mailer, and lots of philosophy books and articles

TV: Seinfeld, Buffy, Californication, 30 Rock, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Happy Endings, The West Wing, Firefly, Game of Thrones, Community, Friday Night Lights, Archer, Broad City

Movies: The Matrix (The Matrices{?}), La Jetée, Apocalypse Now, Punch Drunk Love, Young Adult

Food: sashimi, sushi, pizza, cajun, anything very spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog, (good) coffee, (good) beer, books, a way to write (pen and paper or my laptop), my friends, Notre Dame football, ignoring OKC list limits.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What we mean when we say something "is" or what it means to "be," time, humanity as a concept , and how we use language to understand/shape the world around us.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading or writing--the life of a grad student.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My parents may be cooler than me, because they've learned curling, and I have not (yet).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re willing to have good discussions about topics both serious and not, you have a sense of humor about yourself, and want to get to know one another (at some point) over a good cup of coffee or a drink. Also, if you consider yourself a feminist (or at least have a favorable opinion of feminism), please shoot me a message--I'm honestly shocked at the number of women I meet who are anti-feminists, and I'm getting tired of facepalming.

If you are homophobic, racist/bigoted, or very serious about traditional gender roles, we probably won't get along well.