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Cogitoaec

33 M Forest Hills, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:41am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Indian, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Hindi (Okay), Bengali (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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BalancE! It is my perennial pursuit: work and play; sarcasm and seriousness; being spontaneous and calculated; activity and laziness; sanity and tolerable craziness...It's important to love what you do. Sometimes I'm in my head more than I need to be, and I appreciate anyone/anything that brings me back to the moment. I am committed to what I am doing with my life and always seeking to grow. I find ambition, unprovoked kindness, and masculine energy very sexy. I come on here to find "the one"...or .66 rounded up to "the one." I understand that no one can handle the pressure of perfection, as long as your actions are ethically bound.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an educator. I just finished a stint as a director of a gifted program through a major university, and I work with students and teachers in this great city of ours (though I fantasize about moving somewhere calmer eventually). I love my profession and have a true passion for it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
craftiness; being a good brother, son, and friend; teaching; playing hide-and-seek with my nephew; carrying on a conversation; cooking; sleeping in; giving advice and being patient
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that is for the beholder to decide
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Prophet; The Kite Runner; Oh the Places You'll Go; Guns,
Germs, & Steel; Little Bee~Movies: Life is Beautiful; Inception; Avatar; Mean Girls; Clueless; Amelie; American Beauty; DDLJ

Music: Top 40, Bollywood, dance remixes, maroon 5, Coldplay, Pandora tells me what I like, and it's usually right.

TV: Modern Family; Veep; movie awards; The Big Bang Theory; Friday Night Lights; The Knicks; History Channel and Game of Thrones
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family/friends (obv)
humor
fruits
modern toys
free mind
hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whatever I am doing at the moment
positivity
people in my life
my job
being healthy
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
unwinding at home, out with friends, watching a broadway show, movie, basketball game, reading...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love Jeopardy!
You should message me if
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you are loyal, kind, grounded, and are looking for a committed long-term relationship.