I'm a laid back, easy going guy. I think I've got a good sense of humour, a bit off the wall, at times - I don't take myself too seriously. Honest, and straight forward.

I'm really enjoying living in Oxford. I live in a nice house with a good friend of mine, got a good bunch of friends, and I love the Oxford vibe and the drinking establishments. Big fan of Gin and Tonic, Wine, and real ale. I create music - an electronic music producer, and I also on occasion write poetry and drawing. However, more recently I've just been focusing on the music. I'm an MJ fan, but also like Funk, Soul, Jazz, Reggae and Dub, DnB, Electro and progressive house. I'm currently working on new track which is (hopefully) going to be a fusion of Funk, DnB and Reggae.

I work in Oxford, I make websites.

Sounds cheesy, but being a good friend (if you're a good friend of mine!) Also good at making an awesome Gin and tonic, and throwing good parties. Pretty good cook too, I enjoy cooking when I have the time. (Isn't this good - I get to blow my own trumpet about everything I'm good at - or rather, think I'm good at!!). Oh, and I also play badminton, which I'm not bad at.

Don't know. My hair?

Music
Alcohol

How I can make more friends to expand my social circle, how I can have fun (putting on parties, festivals, gigs, social events), and wondering how and when I might meet a girl I really like (and she likes me!)

Either at home feeling wacked from a hard week's work. Or in a pub in Cowley or Jericho.

I'm not vain, but I do spend a long time thinking about my 'outfit' when I'm getting ready to go out. - I only do this when going out though, not when I'm going to work. I never iron anything. The only time I use the iron is if I've got a job interview or going to a wedding. :-)

I guess the other private thing that I'm willing to admit is that even though it's been several years since I've had sexual relations I do have quite a high sex drive... (There, the juicy stuff for you there).

Ultimately, I am looking for someone I can have a meaningful relationship with. But, I'm keen to meet people and have a few more female friends.

On the casual sex side, I've never done it before but I wouldn't rule it out. I think it could be quite fun, for a bit at least - to have a casual fun relationship - the fun stuff without the bad bits?