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37 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 26
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm the kind of guy your Mom would be proud that you're dating.

I'm a goal oriented (United States Naval Academy bachelor's degree, Harvard MBA, M.A. in history, commercial pilot's license) former Navy officer, who runs his own investment partnership.

I've traveled the world and lived in many places, but now San Francisco is my home, and I'm looking forward to finding the right girl for me and settling down.

One theme of my life is building...building relationships (and maintaining them), building skills (public speaking, investing, communicating), building a business, and hopefully in the next few years building a family.
What I’m doing with my life
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I run my own investment partnership. I absolutely love what I do including the intellectual, professional, and personal freedom that comes with it.

I do feel like mentioning that because my business is still small, I live on a very tight budget and probably will be for the next year and a half so you'd need to be OK with that. Dates for us will be coffee shops, walks in the park, and whatever looks good on :)

-- Before my current life, I spent seven years as a Navy officer. From interviews to cocktail parties to dates, the most common questions I get asked are “why did you go in” and "why did you leave?" I served in the Navy because I felt it was the most meaningful and challenging thing I could do at that stage in my life. I believed in all the slogans, “let the journey begin,” “a global force for good,” “don’t read history, make it” and I will always have the satisfaction of knowing that I served. And the Navy delivered on all its promises (you’ll get more details on that if we go on a date).

I also teach a few classes on investment management, including one through UC Berkely extension this fall (2014).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening....while keeping advice to myself (unless it's solicited).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my favorite thinkers include Viktor Frankl (on choosing a meaning for one’s life), Stephen Covey (on prioritizing important, but not urgent, matters), and Warren Buffett (on saving and investing).

I like movies about overcoming obstacles (Moneyball, Morning Glory), maturing individuals (Stand By Me, Knocked Up), or that show historical perspective and insight (Munich, Saving Private Ryan, Too Big To Fail).

I find most television incredibly boring with the exception of How I Met Your Mother, The Daily Show, and sometimes Saturday Night Live.

I try to eat vegetarian and fish, as much as I can, but will occasionally eat chicken. (I support animal rights, but not at the expense of my own health.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family - my sister, brother-in-law, and niece live in SF
Public Libraries
Toastmaster's (public speaking club)
Capitalism/The stock market
Economist subscription
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. to build the next Berkshire-Hathaway (Warren Buffett's holding company.) to balance my career and personal goals.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose? home reading books about the financial crisis.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've read a few relationship books. My favorites include the classics, "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus," and "You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation."
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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You're introspective, know what you're doing with your life (and why), and have passions you can share with me.

I find a passion for a career - that you find meaning in - to be extremely attractive.

At this stage in my life, I look at long-term dating (the reason I'm on this site) as the period to figure out if I want to get married.

I feel that after a year or so of exclusively dating I would know, and then we would either get married, or go our separate ways. No living together without commitment, no three year dead-end relationships, no interminable "where is this going?" debates.

I'm normally attracted to educated, intelligent women who are passionate about something.

On religion, I was raised as a Jew, but since I don't believe in God, organized religion makes me feel uncomfortable.

I'm a low-risk, go-to-bed-early, get-up-early kind of guy, so turnoffs include any type of current drug use, tattoos, smoking, heavy drinking or heavy partying.

If that sounds like you (and you live in the SF Bay Area), e-mail me! :)