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30 M Middlesex, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:53pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I like to dance, I might not drink but I do have a funny side and I do like to laugh. I find a lot of different things funny and it does not take much for me to have fun. I also like to cook, making food is always fun, sometimes it does get sloppy but then I know that is not a recipe to repeat.
My goal in life is to become a successful engineer. I have my professional engineers license and hope to use it in the future. My hope is to also rise in the ranks at work, and to have fun at my job.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a Civil Engineer. I basically manage large sized construction projects for the owner (my employer). I coordinate the various activities that go along with prepping these projects for construction from the idea to the finished product. These include paving roads, reconstructing bridges, and drainage improvements on roads. Before all this I worked around bridges a lot for the same place. Basically I going out and inspect them, write them up for repairs. I also write reports on the condition of the bridges. I also do cost estimates of replacements for different bridges.
I’m really good at
Talking to people and finding out about them
looking at bridges and determining what is wrong with them.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am polite and honest to a fault. I am not going to tell a lie just to make someone feel better.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
movies, I like movies that have great plot lines. I like movies like inception, King's Speech, and Something's got to give.
Shows, I like Pawnstars because I like to see how the stars negotiate, it is interesting to see someone come in wanting a lot and taking much less. I also like blue bloods.
Books, I like political and historical books the best.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
hard to say, I guess it is how much the computer thinks two people might be matches. Then reality strikes and all the secondary stuff comes out and a 99% match becomes a 0% match.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There is a staunch Catholic guy on this website that is scaring a lot of women away. He should reflect on what he is doing to others instead of acting. I am not he.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
First of all you should not message me if you are living overseas in Asia! I am sure there are plenty of eligible bachelors overseas.
If you are looking for a serious relationship. If you really want to know a great guy.
If you are not looking for perfect. Perfect is not here, it is not even on this website. No man is perfect. Once you can see that then a relationship can come. These are not my words but the deacons at my church and he is absolutely right.