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26 M Raleigh, NC

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I am driving around the country, couch surfing and staying with friends. Home bases are shared between Boston and Philly. My trip will start after the first weekend in October and end in San Francisco sometime around ten weeks later.

I'll be in Raleigh starting today. I'll be there until the 27th. Pretty much always free. Either going to drive for Lyft or just hang out.

Heading to Atlanta, GA for Halloween.

Updated: 10/22

I want new, amazing, and mind blowing. I want to live a little.

I'm currently a fan of ethical non-monogamy, and plan to stay that way.

I really have a thing for girls with choker necklaces or collars.
What I’m doing with my life
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I enjoy solving problems. Life is pretty much a long word problem. There are so many factors which affect the way something works and looks the way it does. Psychology, science, habit, social stigmas, everything really. What's the best solution? That's why I do design.

I'm driving across the country. Spinning fire, driving people around with Lyft, seeing friends, making new ones.

Boston, Albany, Philly, DC, Raleigh, Atlanta, Nashville, KC, Denver, Phoenix, LA, SF.

I am a gypsy; and I couldn't be happier.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Helping people solve problems.

Doing normal things naked.
Spontaneous adventures.

Finding funny cat gifs, ridiculous shit, raunchy stuff, & wtf images, on the internet. Be prepared to exchange them with each other en masse.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a huge fucking goddamned nerd. I'm on a bike. I'm very forward. Honest. Open. It's been said that I look better in real life than I do in the pictures here. I'm actually able to maintain an intelligent conversation.

I'm on fire.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Good Omens
Musical: The Last 5 Yerrs
Move: Zombieland
Show: Scrubs
Actor: Ryan Reynolds
Actress: Emma Stone
Website: Reddit
Music: Spotify playlist of the moment
Food: Burittos
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
° Somewhere to write down ideas
° Fire
° Colors
° Sounds
° At least one bike
° Physical affection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relationships: Why, how, what, how long, everything. It's fascinating. Seriously. It's 60% of my thoughts.
Why don't people understand that:
a "left handed glove" ≠ a non hand specific glove (e.g. rubber)?
If anyone wants to hang out tonight?

If anyone remembers when okcupid profiles had a blog...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fire spinning. Bike rides. Karaoke. Movie night. Dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I spend far too much time worrying about typography.

I just found out that Stoya also does circus stuff. That makes me really happy. I'm in love with this.

I'm also pretty into in BDSM & Kink. It's not a deal-breaker if you're not, but definitely let me know if that piques your interest. It's not as scary as you may think. I'd love to show you pictures.

I hate it when people list "that I'm on OkCupid" here.
You should message me if
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Message me if:'d like me to stay on your couch while I'm traveling...

...or you want to be my submissive nomadic slave girl...

...or if you like beards, cause apparently that's a thing here.

You have a dog I can cuddle with, I have a dog-shaped hole in my life.

You want to practice juggling with me.

For gods' sakes... just send a message!

If you think that if you don't miss me when I'm gone, you'd tell me that too.