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CompassionateGa

45 / F / straight / Single

Jacksonville, Florida

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am sensitive, thoughtful, and honest.

My Self-Summary

Regarding my "separated" status, please know that my divorce will be final any time now.

My passions include animals (esp. my 2 dogs), scuba, snorkeling for conch (fritters), antiquing, movies, snuggling, kayaking, horseback riding (from trails to show jumping), traveling the Caribbean, dining (fine or casual, with a pleasant environment & casual attire), board games!, poker, & volunteering for Hospice's Camp Healing Powers.

Part of what makes me unique is that I am diverse. Also, I grew up playing on the secluded beaches in Nassau, Bahamas. My 2 sisters and I are the first generation (on both sides) born out of England. Now my mom, my 2 sisters, & I all live in Jax. Everyone else is in England (& now Scotland & Holland too).

I am down-to-earth, highly passionate & compassionate, thoughtful, caring, responsible, somewhat complex...& sometimes intellectually challenging. I'm told that I am accepting (politically I definitely lean to left...To each his own so long as no one gets hurt), & I tend to see the good in people. I am told that that I am sexy and a good kisser!

I am also very much in touch with my sweet, sensitive, playful, FUN, & spontaneous inner child. One thing is for sure, if you are mine, you will feel like a man.

Hopefully you're looking for your life partner and enjoy sharing a majority of your time with that person. You are kind, sensitive (but strong...definitely OK to cry at times), a good talker & listener, fabulous kisser, affectionate, intelligent, educated, honest, generous, committed, FUN, like to laugh, are spontaneous, have goals, are responsible / dependable, care passionately about animals and those less fortunate, want to make a difference, wouldn't hurt a fly, gentle with people's feelings, growth-minded, open-minded, accepting, classy, but down to earth, well-mannered / polite, casual (take shorts & jeans any day over a suit or tux)& you are an excellent / passionate lover....OK, I don't really expect it all, but it doesn't hurt to ask, right?...But at a minimum you must be a very "good", kind, and thoughtful person.

P.S. I'd really like to retire in the islands somewhere very laid back with good values.

What I’m doing with my life

My short-term goal is to find a new job (less hours & healthier environment). After that, I would like to get back in shape & start sharing quality time with that special someone (hopefully you!). I would also like get back in touch with my more spiritual / peaceful side, to develop healthy, loving, lifelong relationships with quality (kind-hearted, sincere) people. I just bought a kayak & am seriously thinking about getting into Yoga. I did an Outward Bound Kayaking trip down the coast of Eleuthera (sp?), Bahamas a few years ago...Oh the Heavenly aqua waters from my home land!

I’m really good at

Being a doggy mom, listening, showing compassion, horesback riding / jumping, snorkeling, swimming, math, Risk (board game), going with the flow...kissing...scuba, accepting people, being thoughtful, compassionate

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't really know...Perhaps a certain degree of sophistication? Hopefully warmth & intelligence.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Not much of a reader since I read & write at work.

I love music & adore the sentimental songs from the 70's (America, Earth, Wind & Fire, Chicago, Diana Ross, Doobies, Fleetwood Mac, Elton John, Chuck Mangione, Simon & Garfunkel, Steely Dan, David Bowie, Santana, Commodores, Beatles, all of it). Depending on the mood, I also like calming Jazz and Soundscapes. Ohhhhhh, & if the mood is right, a passionate & sensual slow dance to Gato Babieri's Europa....Rrrrr ...

Movies - Romantic Comedies, Comedies, Romance, Mystery (nothing loud ), sometimes scary, but only if you're with me.

Food - I have a sweet tooth, Italian, Maine Lobster, Freshly baked chocolate chip cookies

The six things I could never do without

Love
Support
My dogs
My family
Faith
You!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Meeting & sharing fun and romantic time with YOU!
Finding a new job (less stressful / less hours)
I can't say - Not G rated

On a typical Friday night I am

A little bored - I'm not currently seeing anyone...Snuggled up on the couch with my puppy watching something on TV.

But if I was (seeing someone) ...!!!!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Oh my God...No, we're not going there!

You should message me if

You're looking for a close & long-term, committed (sp) relationship and you think we're a good match.