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39 M Cincinnati, OH

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 28–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:16am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I see articles that say men don't post honest profiles on on-line dating sites. Well, here's at least one honest profile: I spend much of my time trying to defy labels or at least being easily categorized. But I will try my best here. I am a very down to earth, amiable, intelligent, single man who enjoys all of the roles that I walk through on a day to day basis. I am many things on any given day - father, teacher, coach, artist, philosopher, writer, dancer, musician, homie, lover, and friend. :-) I do much only because I was given so much and I'm just attempting to give back in equal measure. I don't know if my work will ever be done, but I'm up for the task.
I am an open minded person who likes to laugh a lot - occasionally even at appropriate things. :-D I guess I'm on here because I love the experience of people. I like learning about new people and learning from them. I also believe that many people come into our lives either to teach us something or because they are drawn to us. I've found this to be true, even if I don't always understand it at the time.
Anyway, I hope to meet similarly open minded and stimulating people on here. I don't know what I want out of a relationship at this time, but meeting people and being met sounds like something worth doing. There are possible volumes of things I could write, but instead, I hope I've left you curious enough to consider posing some questions.

I am enigmatic, humorous, and bright
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being a father and an educator. Those things get the lion's share of my time. On my time, I like to work out & cook. I always make time for both. I dance when I get the chance. I also like to write poetry and rock the mic, sometimes. I actually do lots, but for all that you'll have to ask. I'm generally forthcoming. ;-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Knowing random information
Long discussions
Writing poetry
Making inappropriate jokes
Other, more interesting things if asked...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair. And apparently, my voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: LOTS. Not too much fiction tho

Movies: Braveheart, V for Vendetta, JAWS, Coming to America, Harlem Nights, Die Hard, Good Will Hunting, Finding Nemo, The Incredibles, Sliding Doors, Full Metal Jacket
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Family
2) Friends
3) My Thought Process
4) Food
5) My Phone
6) ?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My son, sustainability, macroeconomic trends, cosmology, guitar riffs, the wild ways of women, my remaining fitness goals, the subtle application of psychological principles, the idiocy of politicians and the greater idiocy of the populus. Wondering where the "vox" went for the "populi". If you get that, you're already my friend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a typical Friday night, I could be doing anything but often I am doing something for school like working a game or coaching. I could be with friends (good times!) or quietly home with my son. It really varies. I'm always doing something, sorta.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll say lots of sorta private things in person, but not here...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like to laugh and want to hang with someone who always tries to make a good time out of normal stuff. I like people who got something cool to talk about. I prefer to spend my time exploring people who have something cool to teach me, whether its the way they think, somewhere they've been or something they do. That can include trying some food I wouldn't have or engaging great, wandering conversations. IF you are looking to fill a void in your life, that's not my role nor purpose. I want you to be happy with 85% of what goes on with you because I am pretty happy with me.