I like people that try to live their lives ethically, whether they succeed or not. I sometimes fuck up, like everyone, but keep trying, & I try to learn from my mistakes. Let's start from there...
I have changed a lot over the years.
I use to set up and promote punk, metal, folk, and hip hop shows for political bands. Now I write poetry, work out a lot, and live for books. It has been quite the journey. I grew up on a cattle farm in alberta, the same farm my mother grew up on; the closest town was under 700 people. I was bullied in school so I left at 15 and I was a street kid for years. Been sober and vegan for over a decade now.
I connect with different people on many different levels, and I try to be open to diverse possibilities.
I am polyamorous, and have two wonderful partners. I am 'open' to further relationships of different types if they happen. I am always open to play partners in particular,; and I am also open to (but not actively seeking) romantic relationships. I am primarily attracted to women, but am definitely open to all genders if it is the right person
I am generally a social person & run in many different circles, but I don't tend to do well in social environments that privilege cliques, competitiveness, or popularity. General rule of thumb is that if there is an in-group, I will be outside of it. I do far better with individual relationships than friends groups.