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ComradeBlack

34 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Man

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My Details

Last Online
Dec 10
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo
Education
Dropped out of high school
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Been sober and vegan for over a decade now. I use to set up and promote punk, metal, folk, and hip hop shows for political bands. Now I write poetry, work out a lot, and live for books. It has been quite the journey. I grew up on a cattle farm in alberta, the same farm my mother grew up on; the closest town was under 700 people. I was bullied in school so I left at 15 and I was a street kid for years.

I am generally a social person & run in many different circles, but I don't tend to do well in social environments that privilege cliques, competitiveness, or popularity. General rule of thumb is that if there is an in-group, I will be outside of it. I do far better with individual relationships than friends groups.

I connect with different people on many different levels, and try to be open to diverse possibilities. Currently I am in a polyamorous relationship with 2 partners who are wonderful. So I am open to further relationships of different types if they happen, but am more interested in 'seeking out' poly-sexual relationships at this time rather the amorous ones. I am primarily attracted to women, but am definitely open to all genders if it is the right person

I like people that try to live their lives ethically, whether they succeed or not. I sometimes fuck up, like everyone, but keep trying, & I try to learn from my mistakes. Let's start from there...
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a book of my poetry in the works being published by Eberhardt Press.
You can check out my poetry at:
http://youtu.be/6SGZ0bZq6cU?list=PL6dhTS2vknAI5ejrBGxTjreJzAS82Nm-q

I also write for the long standing anarcho-punk magazine Profane Existence
http://profaneexistence.org/tag/comrade-black/

I am starting a distro, meaning I will be distributing books for small presses that are harder to get north of the imaginary colonial line do to shipping costs - Just got copies of my first title in

Other than that, I am trying to get healthy and fit, prioritizing these aspects in my life. I lift weights about 5 days a week consistently, and read on nutrition. Still have a long ways to go to reach my goals.

I volunteer at an anti-colonial bookstore. I also cook with Food not Bombs, and I am a full time anarchist organizer, who does community organizing.
I’m really good at
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I also love cooking vegan food and baking, and am a pretty damn good cook! I am known for making up baking on the spot and it turning out excellent

I help people find what book they need to read, what record they need to hear, or what people they need to meet, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am always smiling

I have been described as both very mellow, and intense.
Also been told by many people I feel 'safe' which I take pride in.

People sometimes tell me they find me intimidating for some reason when they first see me, but once they meet me it goes away pretty quick I think
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently Reading;
* Clan Novel Giovanni (Vampire The Masquerade)
* Prehistoric Britain - by Timothy Darvill
* Celtic Spirals - by Aidan Meehan

Last reading;

* Clan Novel Malkavian (Vampire The Masquerade)
* Clan Novel Ravnos (Vampire The Masquerade)
* The Amber Spyglass- by Philip Pullman (His Dark Materials)
* The Subtle Knife - by Philip Pullman (His Dark Materials)
* The Golden Compass - by Philip Pullman
* Liminal - by Natasha Alvarez
* Powers - by Ursula K Le Guin
* The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul by Douglas Adams
* Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency - by Douglas Adams
* Wild Children – Domesticated Dreams: Civilization and the Birth of Education - by Layla Abdel Rahim
* Voices by Ursula K Le Guin
* Catastrophone Orchestra - A Collection Of Works
* Green Is The New Red - by Will Potter
* Catwings Returns - by Ursula K Le Guin
* Columbus And The Other Cannibals - by Jack D. Forbes
* The Beginning Place - by Ursula K Le Guin
* Malafrena - by Ursula K Le Guin
* Love and Liberation: An Animal Liberation Front Story Sarat Colling and Anthony J. Nocella II
* Anarchy and Christianity - by Jacques Ellul

Some Favorite Books:
Against His-Story Against Leviathan by Fredy Perlman, Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg, Shibboleth my Revolting Life by Penny Rimbaud, The Dispossessed by Ursula K Leguin, Whipping Girl by Julia Serano, Direct Action by Ann Hansen, Hello Cruel World by Kate Borenstien

Poets and Spoken Word
Lisa B, Janet Rogers, Greg 'Ritallin' Frankson, Chrystos, Julia Serano, Mathew Cook, Gluke Maynard, Audre Lorde, Kelly Pflug-Back, Oscar Wilde, Jen Wickham, Christine Lowther

Music:
I listen to a lot of different music, mostly I listen to a mix of hardcore, crust, folk punk, folk, anarcho punk and radical hip hop.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- rewriting my OK Cupid profile
- If I could have 3 wishes...
- Domestication & it's impacts
- How people use space, how they take it up and how they are aware of it, how I use space as well.
- How intoxication culture and substance abuse/use are so prevalent and yet completely ignored, even taboo to talk about in a meaningful way
- Books
- sex (let's be honest, right?)
- consent. not just sexual consent, but consent in general.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am not very private

I just had a vasectomy. So no kids for me, permanent birth control.

I am on permanent disability coverage, and haven't worked a paid job in years, If you are not ok with this, don't message me. I have been diagnosed with Ankelosing Spondalitus & Fybramialgia.

I don't know how to ride a bike, and don't really care anymore, I do know how to ride a longboard, and how to ride a horse, and to walk on my hands though, so...

You know that type of body where a lot of women will look at and say "eww; I don''t find 'that' much muscle attractive on a guy."?
Yeah, that's how big I want to get. I want to be that guy...
You should message me if
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I often look at people's profiles and don't end up sending a message. I am actually quite shy sometimes, and besides I like it with I don't always have to initiate things. So if you like my profile, please send me a message. Also it was recently brought to my attention that sometimes it appears I am constantly visiting your profile, because I leave the tab open and my browser refreshes it each time I log on.... Sorry if this happened

Especially you are any of the following:
* You can teach me about tree species or you like to climb trees
* You would like to hear me read my poetry, or share your poetry with me?
* You are interested in straightedge or radical sobriety :)
* You are poly or open and find me sexy

Also I don't have a cell phone, nor do I want one (apparently that's a big deal these days, ps- cell phones kill birds, and I would way rather have birds than a text message)

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