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40 M London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:52am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a successful professional. That's the most boring thing I can say about myself, so best get it out of the way early - I think it's just a euphemism for "I have a good source of income and my shit together".

I love art, ancient, modern, kitsch, whatever. I like making it as much as looking at it, and draw regularly. I love being outdoors, from walking through bluebells to climbing mountains, to sitting in sand dunes or round a fire. I'm incredibly bad at doing nothing, and would make the worse beach holiday companion ever.

Overall, I believe that more is more, that life is there to be grabbed by the scruff of its neck. I'm not an adrenaline junky or hardcore traveller - making wooden toys for my nieces is just as much fun as trekking in India. I like food and drink, ideally not in moderation.

Although I come across as terribly polite and English, I'm actually an opinionated so-and-so and always happy to have a good natured argument.

I like people who are interested in the world around them, and not afraid to show it.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm enjoying life, and in the process of moving house and giving John Lewis all my money. Who would have thought choosing doorknobs could be so much fun!
I’m really good at
Writing, drawing, telling other people how to design software (my job), being patient and diplomatic. I can cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
My incredibly loud (yet incredibly tasteful) ties, if I'm wearing one. Otherwise my pointlessly brisk walking pace.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by: PG Wodehouse, Graham Greene, Ian M Banks, Raymond Chandler, Betjeman, Frost, Edward Thomas, Roger McGough. Inspirational crazy books include "Pimp" by Iceberg Slim, "Ridley Walker", "All the Pretty Horses" "Accordion Crimes" "Shake Hands With The Devil" (about the Rwandan genocide)

I think The Artist was probably the best film I've seen in years, although Run Lola Run, Leon, Delicatessen, The Kings Speech, Zatoichi, Ran, Brazil, Sin City, and anything by Herzog. And Who Framed Roger Rabbit, which has to be a top 10 film.
The six things I could never do without
Good food, good wine, the company of friends.
Art. Ballet. Mountains.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I did a philosophy degree. I spend a lot of time thinking about everything. Quite often, I think about climbing mountains, which is easier, cheaper, and less terrifying than actually climbing them (although I do that too, sometimes).
On a typical Friday night I am
1) Stuck on the north circular trying to escape London
2) Out having fun
3) In, eating comfort food and watching DVD's with my phone off, having had too much fun Mon-Thurs

In roughly equal measure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no secrets. None. Nope.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
a) My photos fill you with good old fashioned lust
b) You have short red hair, a northern accent, tattoos, the legs of a dancer, and a National Trust membership card. Will settle for one or less of these at a pinch.