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33 • Minneapolis, MN • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 31–45
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 6:18pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Trying to quit
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
- English (Fluently)
I don't NEED someone but I WANT someone. Someone who wants me back and is willing to put in the effort that it takes for a healthy and progressive relationship. I am in ABSOLUTELY NO WAY looking for a "friends with benefits" situation. I'm a bit out there and I'm seeking the "Gomez to my Morticia" more than the "partner in crime". Quirks, initiative and general kindness prevail with me!
Everyone has their preferences; just want to get a few things out there as some lifestyle, personality and physical characteristics seem to weigh heavy on people:
- I believe in sarcasm as well as tact.
- I am what some would call an introvert.
- I prefer quality over quantity in 99.9% of things.
- I am hugely into psychological studies especially cognitive and dialectical behaviors.
I've been described as: "quirky" and "whimsical" with black hair, blue eyes, fair skin, and curves...YES, I AM A THICK CUT MEAT BUCKET!!! No, I am not obese, but I will never be a rail thin woman and I am ok with that do please be as well. Contrary to what photos may portray at any point I could have a spattering of dings, scars and rotating bruises which may or may not come with a good story. I also wear glasses to help me see far distances.
Ask if you'd like to know anything specific.
-Listening and giving honest advise.
-Being an introvert in an extrovert driven world.
-Seeing a big picture and being able to debate from both sides.
-God Bless America
-Pee Wee's Big Adventure
-Lemony Snicket's A Series Of Unfortunate Events
-A Bronx Tale
-Some Like It Hot
-Into The Wild
-Anything Tim Burton (The colors and design are usually what get me here)
-Old cheesy horror e.g.: Ed Wood & The Universal Monster Classics.
- Law & Order SVU
Music: I've almost 8TB of music when I load it digitally (tape, records, cd, etc)....no for real....This is like asking me to pick my favorite child (if I had a child let alone many to choose from). All across the spectrum I can find something I enjoy. Independent releases to large labels. Straight øl' Rock and Roll, 80's/New Wave Electro, Techno, Hardcore, Acid, House, Psychobilly, Old Punk, and ethnic world are among the most common around these parts though. Also Swing, Oldies, Big Band, Blue Grass, Classical, Blues, Rockabilly, Acoustic, Ambient, Bhangra, Surf, Celtic, 8-bit, Industrial, Doo Wop, Reggae, Ska, Synth, old country.
Food: Big fan of breakfast, Italian, Mexican, grilled foods, crock pot cooking, macaroni and cheese and MAN if I don't enjoy a good sandwich!
2.) My Literacy
4.) Health Insurance & Sterilization
5.) A Comfortable Bed With Great Sheets And Many Pillows
6.) A Hoodie and sensible shoes (Mary Jane's or boots are my go to.)
-Psychology, Dialectic, Cognitive Science.
-What in the shit is wrong with about 97% of people on this site.
-Random non-sense like islands with trap doors, tree houses, wind up robots, sharks with lasers, dance sequences....you know, awesome stuff!
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