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ConsciousTouch

64 M Bellevue, WA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:23pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Some people approach relationships as an exchange: "This is what I want, so what do you want?" Certainly that's a part of it. I'd also like to explore the territory we can only reach by accepting ourselves and each other as we are, playfully. For me, relationship is a spiritual path -- an opportunity to become the best version of myself and to inspire that quest in my partner -- starting from where we are now.

I have an intimate knowledge of a woman's body and a woman's heart. They can not be embraced separately without some dishonor. And I delight in embracing both.

ABOUT ME:

I'm a systems thinker and work in technology management, but I use both sides of my brain. I've experienced deep connection with emotional honesty, and I want that again. Integrity, curiosity and belly-laughter are essential to me. Romance, playfulness, and authentic communication are vital to my well-being. I laugh a lot, especially at myself. People are so complex and fascinating, how can you not?

I'm a long-time student of sensual presence, and that's what I bring into a relationship.

I work as a technology entrepreneur, currently as a management consultant in accounting software, starting a venture to sell solar-generated electricity at a utility scale, and an international venture to produce renewable energy from algae. Early in my career, with 3 partners, I started one of the most successful accounting software companies and sold it in 1983.

I love to travel -- anywhere.

I get my news from NPR and Comedy Central (Stewart and Colbert). I get my comedy from Fox News.

I'm fascinated by evolution: natural, cultural, personal and spiritual. Personal growth and energy awareness have been central in my interests. I've received training in Transcendental Meditation, Yoga (as a teacher), Tantra, massage, OM, Reiki, Hands of Light, Voice Dialogue (as a facilitator), Avatar, The Work of Byron Katie, and other spiritual disciplines. My spiritual focus since 1988 has been Tantra, the ancient wisdom of experiencing the divine in everything, without resistance. Tantra embraces every part of being human. To me, it's about accessing my senses and awareness to experience and express love -- to honor my partner in every way we connect.

I get a large charge from giving a one-hour foot massage while watching a movie or just talking.

I swim for fitness 3+ days per week and do yoga in the steam room beforehand. I'm passionate about skiing in the winter, virtually every weekend. Playing music and singing feed my soul. I play guitar (Celtic, folk, pop, rock) and hand drums, currently focused on doumbek (AKA Egyptian tabla). Until a couple of years ago, I accompanied many of Aleili's bellydance classes and performances. (She moved to Hawaii.)

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ABOUT YOU:

My perfect partner is sensuous, intelligent, curious, fit, and has a healthy libido. She's independent, affectionate, grounded, authentic, courageous in communicating how she feels and what she wants, youthful, athletic, strong, playful, and laughs with me in the morning. She embraces values of her choosing and lives with intention. And nobody's perfect.

You get extra credit for playful banter during the day by e-mail or text messages.

With the following traits, we could co-create a long-term relationship:
1) You're insightful about your sensations and what you want.
2) You have the courage to communicate in real time how you feel and what you want.
3) You accept responsibility for your own experiences and feelings.
4) You're curious and compassionate about how I feel and what I want.
5) You have the courage to make difficult decisions and the discipline to follow through.

"Your task is not to seek for love but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." --Rumi

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ABOUT THE DATING PROCESS:

I've learned from online dating that there's a wide variation in the assumptions people make about "the rules" in the dating process. For example, some women only want to date a man who is not meeting or dating any other women but them while they're "going out". Other women are open to a dating process that moves toward commitment to a relationship more slowly. As an example, one woman told me this: "A guy wrote me, 'I am a one-woman man.' That's the last thing a woman wants to hear from a man in the beginning." (I think she was telling me something about herself, not about women in general. ;-) Another woman told me, "I don't want to over-think it. I want us to figure it out as we go along."

This wide variation in the assumptions people make (without communicating them) leaves open a chasm for potential misunderstanding and unexpected disappointments.

So as we dance, at precisely the right moments, let's talk about what we want during the dating process and perhaps share stories that have been instructive about ourselves. That could start an engaging conversation to learn more about each other, yes? I will answer any question you want to ask me, with 100% honesty, about anything. And, like here in OKC, I'll ask you to answer the same question first. ;-)
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a technology entrepreneur. I'm currently starting an urban solar utility company in Japan and (later) Los Angeles. I'm a founding investor in two ventures to produce renewable energy from algae. And I sell my time as a management consultant.
I’m really good at
1. Foot massage while we watch a movie
2. Listening for understanding, even when the message raises some vulnerability
3. Systems thinking -- seeing the big, big picture and how things are related
4. Experiencing something from another person's perspective
5. Downhill skiing
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, my hair or my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Media:
Dangerous Beauty
Intolerable Cruelty
Don Juan DeMarco
Head in the Clouds
Pride & Prejudice
TED Talks -- Ideas worth spreading (TED.com)

Books:
Loving What Is (Byron Katie)
The Believing Brain -- How We Construct Beliefs and Reinforce Them as Truths (Michael Shermer)
Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm (Nicole Daedone) -- defines the practice of Orgasmic Meditation
A New Earth (Eckhart Tolle)
Intimate Communion (David Deida)
The Way of the Superior Man (David Deida)
The Seven Levels of Intimacy (Matthew Kelly)
The Four Agreements (Don Miguel Ruiz)
On a typical Friday night I am
... relaxing and putting aside thoughts about the work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have an intimate knowledge of a woman's body and a woman's heart. They can not be embraced separately without some dishonor, and I never have.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... you're the kind of person who doesn't often use the word "should".