I'm a big dorky nerd and I'm totally cool with that. I'm a bit of a loner, need to have my "me time". I really enjoy reading a good book with a cup of coffee while sitting outside in the sunshine, or sunbathing. (The sun is my God and chooses to cook me in the summer months.) I'm a bit of a gamer girl, I have been known to get lost in a video game for hours on end. I'm also a toucher, I believe in the power of hugs and massage. Its amazing how much better a person can feel after some physical affection. I curse like a sailor and look like the girl next door. I've been described as cute so many times I'm starting to believe I'm one of the examples they give in the dictionary.
I’m really good at
Attracting people. For the most part, to know me is to love me; this does not always hold true however no one is universally liked no matter how hard we try. I'm a giver not a taker and I think that people can sense that.
I like to touch. My dogs love me for the rub downs I give. I'm good at finding the spot that hurts or holds all the stress and making it melt away.
Also I listen and actually really try to hear what people are saying which I'm learning is a rare skill. I empathize a lot which becomes a challenge when others do not do the same.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am female. We all look for gender first when we see a new person. After that it could be a variety of things but it would most likely be my smile, I smile and laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite book is Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice. Its old and its
probably that times version of a chick flick but I love it. I like
to read sci-fi and crime/mystery books. Two of my favorite authors
are Stephen King and Patricia Cornwell. I also have a weakness for
romance novels. They're like chocolate in literary format.
I love comedic movies. Laughter is good for the soul and the
abdomen, why not indulge in some of it? I can do some horror but
usually I either get really freaked out or start laughing
inappropriately and really freak out the people around me. I enjoy
a good action flick every now and then, who doesn't? Documentaries
are good too, they can be quite interesting and informative and
sometimes a good documentary can get you interested in something
you never really thought about before.
I like watching SNL the newer stuff and the old stuff that I
fuzzily remember from when I was growing up. I like sci-fi tv shows
like the Dollhouse and I was a huge fan of both Stargate and Star
Trek when I was younger.
I like a really eclectic assortment of music. I'm not good with
band names or song titles but I like all different sorts of things.
Not a big fan of country, sorry just not my thing.
I like to eat all kinds of things but I try to stay away from fat
and grease. I don't always succeed but at least I make a token
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My hair. Seems like a stupid thing to think about but I play with it a lot, cause there's so much of it and its long and pretty. There's more, obviously, since my head isn't filled with fluff and rainbows. However, one does need to keep an air of mystery about one's self.
On a typical Friday night I am
With my best friend. It's our girls night, we stay in or very
occasionally go out. We talk and unwind and just genuinely enjoy
each others company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still sometimes confuse my right and my left. I'll be driving and
someone will tell me to go left and I'll start heading to the right
as they frantically scream at me, "Left, Left, LEFT!" It's not
because I don't know my right and left (make L's with my fingers
and see which one looks correct ;-D) I just don't think sometimes.
You should message me if
You are intelligent. I find intelligence so very attractive.
You have a weird/nerdy/dorky side that just waits for the perfect opportunity to flaunt itself.
You have a wickedly awesome sense of humor.
You'd like to match your brain against mine in a verbal duel.
You are chill and want to have a good time. This girl is always down for some drama free fun.
You know how to spell real words and you don't end every sentence with lol. Annoys the crap outta me.