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51 Pittsfield, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:44am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Compassion, mutual respect, honoring the spirit of that which makes us all unique.

About me:
Others have described me as a man who communicates openly and honestly, has a witty sense of humor, a man who is passionate and romantic, healthy in mind, body and spirit, appreciates random acts of kindness, who is confident and comfortable in his own skin. I was a single custodial dad for 10 years (their mom moved away), but the children have have grown up and I now have time for me. Distance is not an issue for me.

Tidbits: I own my own home. I was taught to open the car door for my date. I wrote a song that was sent by Atlantic Records to Phil Collins. I graduated with high honors from UMass. Personal growth is very important to me. A healthy diet is too.

In other ways, I am a regular guy. I have a great job (although it does not define me), am blessed with musical talent and have two wonderful children. I like watching sports, taking day trips, checking out little shops along the way, going to concerts. I don't watch much TV but instead get what I need online. Simple things make me happy. I love rock n roll, it is embedded in my DNA.

What I am looking for in you::
You are happy. You are true and real. You find joy in the little things, but can think deeply at times. You care about the world and leaving something positive behind. You are intelligent, compassionate and nurturing. Healthy foods are important to you. You are kind, honest and mature. You are genuine and a good communicator. You, too, care about the earth and do your part. You say what you mean and mean what you say.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.
What I’m doing with my life
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working, playing music, dating, going to concerts
I’m really good at
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performing music, parenting, communication, eating healthy, meditation, coaching sports, accounting, kissing, hugging, cuddling, romance, compassion......
The first things people usually notice about me
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my friendly smile and my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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book: siddhartha
music: rock, classic rock, alternative rock, jam bands, jazz, indie
food: green drinks (juicing)
The six things I could never do without
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my kids, my bass and guitar, my green drinks, meditation, computer, smart phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the meaning of life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
open to possibilities.
You should message me if
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you are interested in meeting for coffee.