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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 27
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a totally nondescript mix of cultures and ideas -- the ultimate example of the Melting Pot and totally American to my apple pie core. Truth be told, I confuse the majority of single men looking for specific, easily recognizable "types." But, if you're the type of man who thinks outside the strict little boxes most men use to define themselves and their ideal match, let's chat. I'm the most non-traditional traditionalist you'll ever meet.

THINGS I BELIEVE IN: Pancakes for breakfast. The power of reading, writing, music, theater and art. The Great American Melting Pot and the pursuit of happiness. Morning runs. (I just ran my first 10K this month.) Cherishing family traditions. Old friends being family. Dinner parties and game nights. Laughing out loud. New York City, with its endless treasures and four seasons. Home-cooked dinners (I've been working my way recipe-by-recipe through a Martha Stewart cookbook.) Meat and potatoes, and apple pie. Old-fashioned love songs. Goodnight kisses.

Do I love my life? You better believe it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Riding my bike.
Running a mile.
Reading a book.
Seeing a show.
Laughing with friends.
Cooking a meal.
Writing a song.
Visiting a museum.
Screening film classics.
Asking what's up.
Taking planes and boats and trains.
These are a few of the things that I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying happy. Finding enriching things to do, whether it's cracking open an enticing book or jetting off to explore a new city. I'm never, ever bored.

Hosting parties and get-togethers, especially game nights. Expert traveler, especially in Deutschland!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Get ready for some old school.

Brideshead Revisited
Time and Again
Gay New York
Guns Germs & Steel
Not Since Carrie
Auntie Mame and anything Patrick Dennis

Rosemary's Baby
Jacques Tati's Playtime
Little Shop of Horrors
The Color Purple
Mary Poppins
The Boys in the Band

Mary Tyler Moore
The Golden Girls
Mad Men
Family Guy
Keeping Up Appearances

Good ol' American food--including ethnic "American" staples like Italian, Mexican, and Chinese--beats all the rest, hands down.

Showtunes, classical, opera and late '60s pop, baby!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:

1. My music collection
2. Live theater
3. Bacon cheeseburger and french fries
4. Pencil and Paper
5. Shelves stuffed with books
6. Bea Arthur's deadpan
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. next life goal.
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