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39 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 24
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My life right now is pretty darn close to what I've always dreamed it would be. Maybe together we can nudge our lives closer to perfect.

From L.A., in NYC since '06. On the Upper West Side with an apartment I love.

I prefer culture that's smart, theater that's smarter, and all of it entertaining. And I also love entertaining, meaning having guests over at my place for dinners, parties, game nights, and whatever other shenanigans we cook up.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Riding my bike.
Running a mile.
Reading a book.
Seeing a show.
Laughing with friends.
Cooking a meal.
Writing a song.
Visiting a museum.
Screening film classics.
Asking what's up.
Taking planes and boats and trains.
These are a few of the things that I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying happy. Finding enriching things to do, whether it's cracking open an enticing book or jetting off to explore a new city. I'm never, ever bored.

Hosting parties and get-togethers, especially game nights. Expert traveler, especially in Deutschland!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Get ready for some old school.

Brideshead Revisited
Time and Again
Gay New York
Guns Germs & Steel
Not Since Carrie
Auntie Mame and anything Patrick Dennis

Rosemary's Baby
Jacques Tati's Playtime
Little Shop of Horrors
The Color Purple
Mary Poppins
The Boys in the Band

Mary Tyler Moore
The Golden Girls
Mad Men
Family Guy
Keeping Up Appearances

Good ol' American food--including ethnic "American" staples like Italian, Mexican, and Chinese--beats all the rest, hands down.

Showtunes, classical, opera and late '60s pop, baby!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:

1. My music collection
2. Live theater
3. Bacon cheeseburger and french fries
4. Pen and Paper
5. Shelves stuffed with books
6. Bea Arthur's deadpan
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. next life goal.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. firmly believe in diversity -- in dating, in society, and in the world. can have loads of fun without clinging to a drink.'re actively moving towards your life's goals.'re sarcastic, but not bitter.'re genuinely happy in life.'ve read this far and maintained interest.

So message me already!