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UpperWesterner

39 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 8
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
My life right now is pretty darn close to what I've always dreamed it would be. Maybe together we can nudge our lives closer to perfect.

From L.A., in NYC since '06. On the Upper West Side with an apartment I love.

I prefer culture that's smart, theater that's smarter, and all of it entertaining. And I also love entertaining, meaning having guests over at my place for dinners, parties, game nights, and whatever other shenanigans we cook up.
What I’m doing with my life
Riding my bike.
Reading a book.
Seeing a show.
Laughing with friends.
Cooking a meal.
Writing a song.
Visiting a museum.
Screening film classics.
Asking what's up.
Taking planes and boats and trains.
These are a few of the things that I do.
I’m really good at
Staying happy. Finding enriching things to do, whether it's cracking open an enticing book or jetting off to explore a new city. I'm never, ever bored.

Hosting parties and get-togethers, especially game nights. Expert traveler, especially in Deutschland!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Get ready for some old school.

BOOKS:
Brideshead Revisited
Time and Again
Gay New York
Guns Germs & Steel
Not Since Carrie
Auntie Mame and anything Patrick Dennis

MOVIES:
Rosemary's Baby
Jacques Tati's Playtime
Little Shop of Horrors
2001
The Color Purple
Mary Poppins
The Boys in the Band

TV:
Mary Tyler Moore
The Golden Girls
Mad Men
Family Guy
Keeping Up Appearances

FOOD:
Good ol' American food--including ethnic "American" staples like Italian, Mexican, and Chinese--beats all the rest, hands down.

MUSIC:
Showtunes, classical, opera and late '60s pop, baby!
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:

1. My music collection
2. Live theater
3. Bacon cheeseburger and french fries
4. Pen and Paper
5. Shelves stuffed with books
6. Bea Arthur's deadpan
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...my next life goal.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...you firmly believe in diversity -- in dating, in society, and in the world.
...you can have loads of fun without clinging to a drink.
...you're actively moving towards your life's goals.
...you're sarcastic, but not bitter.
...you're genuinely happy in life.
...you've read this far and maintained interest.

So message me already!