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34 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:01pm
Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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*Fair disclaimer before everything else - I have a dog, he's awesome. You must like dogs, this is a deal breaker if you don't. If you're nice, I'll even let you snuggle with him.

I'm a NPR listening, jeep driving, fast walking, whiskey sipping, flaming liberal New Yorker with a vicious dog. Wait, did I say liberal? I meant flaming progressive. I also happen to throw awesome BBQs in the summer(also flaming).

It would be nice to meet someone who wants to troll through Brooklyn Flea, go on crosstown adventures to track down that new food truck serving lobster rolls, laugh awkwardly at bad stand-up comedy shows, jog around Riverside park with my dog, or just lounge around on one of those pedestrian tables at Bryant park and people watch on a lazy weekend.

My friends describe me as genuine, fiercely loyal clever and generous, with an occasional dose of sarcasm mixed in for good measure - basically all the nice things under the sun. Originally from northern California, I moved to NYC 7 years ago and ended up getting a little apartment in midtown with a patio where I try to convince my dog(rescued from the shelter), a crayfish(rescued from a Chinatown fish market) and half dozen birds(pigeons and they're really squatters) to get along. Personality-wise, Briggs-Myers ISTJ for what it's worth...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a minor in something I love, but would have a hard time making a living with, likewise with my dream job.

As for the day job, I'm contributing my part to the financial system to keep the economy from collapsing again. Most of the time I sit at a desk daydreaming, but when the shit hits the fan, I make things right.

Starting fires, starting trends. Making good, doing good, making bad and making by.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Making inappropriate comments at the wrong time or laughing when someone says "this is no laughing matter"
-Being clever, solving problems and creating new ones.
-Not wearing a coat during the winter - gotta have a heart that's warm enough for two.
-Fixing your computer (the first time's always free...)
-Giving great back massages.
-Leaving people better off after they met me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Wow, they do make tall Asian guys!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Marley and Me, The Things They Carried, and The Art and Science of Influence. Or anything Chuck Palahniuk, if only for his dark brutal honesty.

Movies - I have a weakness for indie/foreign films and any movies involving zombies. Films with some type of meaning. Gattaca, Contact, Shawshank Redemption, Black Hawk Down, Crouching Tiger - Hidden Dragon, Amelie, The Lion King, The Count of Monte Cristo. The Walking Dead and Fringe is usually on my queue and recently discovered Battlestar Galactica.

Music - Does NPR count as music since it's on the radio? I've been rediscovering all the sappy R&B and gansta rap that was popular in the 90s'.

Food - I will survive when the apocalypse comes and there's nothing but crickets and pinecones to eat. Otherwise sushi or the prix fixi at L'ecole
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good song.
Rules to bend.
An escape plan.
Social interaction.
Various forms of exercise.
Things made with protons, neutrons and electrons.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people trying to get onto the subway always block the people from getting off the subway by standing right in front of the door.

How to make a better person. Broken people, I can't fix those. Only they can fix themselves, it's the only way. Bendy people on the other hand, now that's cool.

A good friend said this to me recently and I'm still thinking about it: "It took me a long time to learn that the only people worth spending time with are those that make you better. It sounds selfish but it isn't if you think about it. If two people who both make each other better are together - as friends, as a couple, etc - that's a good thing for both and the world."

The oceans.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I tell myself Friday morning that I'm going to have a quiet night at home with my dog, catch up on Netflix and unwind from a hectic week.

What usually ends up happening is that I find myself at a bar with friends 2 subway transfers from home wondering what went wrong with my original plans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I used to live with housemates, I would always try to be the last person to go to sleep because I had this fear that they'll attack me in my sleep.

At times, I find this online dating venture an exercise in madness. Sort of like how the American Indians felt after they realized they traded the entire American West for a bag of beads and an otter pelt.
You should message me if
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I'm drawn to good writers, and smart idealistic types. Being considerate is a must and able to hold a conversation (*hint conversational reciprocation). You're comfortable in jeans and on the occasional dance floor. You feel that we can share a laugh or two every day and you want someone who can resonate with you. Bonus points if you're kinda tall.

And you get the humor in my username my dog is in the kitchen cooking with me, and not cooking dogs.