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28 Krotoszyn, Poland Man


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  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 21
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Polish (Fluently), German (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

My name is Bartek, and this account is, or at least was, a case of acting against my own nature. I’m rather a modest sort of person who was never really keen on sharing my personal information on my social networking websites.

Until recently I had very strict rules concerning keeping my accounts low profile, and possibly because of that policy some friends would (quite wrongly) perceive me as a shy person.

Speaking of this feedback from them, I have to tell you that I was once persuaded to throw the old rulebook out of the window and use this opportunity of 'sharing myself with others’. Since then I started changing my ways, and here I am making another step towards becoming a more sociable internet user.

Don’t get me wrong, though. I’m not describing myself above as an emotional zombie that wanted most of all to get away from its friends. I’m only saying that I was a bit more reserved with respect to my online privacy and that, of course, didn’t stop me from leading quite normal social life.

In fact, I love spending my time with my dearest friends, as well as making some new friendships. In contacts with others I’m easygoing, outgoing and talkative. I love some thought-provoking discussions and good sense of humor. But even more than talking myself, I love listening to others, especially when they’ve got something interesting to say. So don’t be shy, and it should be fairly easy to hit it off with me. Just message me if you want to find out.

But before doing so, you might want to learn more about my interests and hobbies. Certainly, I don’t have neither enough space, nor time to write about all of them. Therefore, I focus on three rather special ones.

‘Sex, drugs and rock and roll’! – that’s not exactly these three hobbies of mine, only a cliché rhetorical figure according to which music might be perceived as one of the stimulants (Leszek Możdżer inspired me to think in that way). In the light of that statement I have to confess that I’m a musicaholic. From flying on some high and light notes to drowning into some ponderous heavy reverb sounds, I’d like to have music in every possible way (maybe that’s why I hold progressive tunes so dear;) :P). In other words, I don’t like to close myself for any kind of music, and instead of focusing on any particular genre I’ve got a master of each of my favorite ones (there are quite a few of these; just check out my last fm account:

Apart from being a musicaholic I also love learning new words because I’m sometimes truly fascinated with them. Some words will come along catching my ear in a certain distinctive way, and I’ll play with them for a while. For me they are a bit like music because with their sound and rhythm they already have some value before I even understand what they mean, and when I finally do understand they allow me to tame the wilderness of my ideas. Therefore, each new word makes a man more powerful, and learning a new language is almost like “getting a new soul” (according to the Czech proverb;) ). It’s a shame, though, that I have so little time to learn more languages;/.

Last but not least, I’m a big fan of sport. Similarly to my music taste, here again I’m keen on trying different things. Although, currently I’m devoted mainly to tennis, I’m also very fond of jogging, swimming and cycling. Occasionally I play football, basketball and in the past I even practiced some martial arts. The reason I like to get tired practicing all those sports lies in their liberating and reinvigorating qualities. In other words, when I enter a tennis court, or a football pitch, I get so absorbed in the game that it’s even hard to think of my problems in a serious way. Therefore, sport is my way to get away from it all, and even when I come back to my problems of everyday world, I sometimes have a bit different outlook on them. What’s more, I believe that in the longer run practicing some competitive sports helps me to face my problems and cope with them more effectively. Some say that sport builds character; all I hope is that it works well for me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- studying,
- trying to overcome my procrastination habits in my academic work,
- teaching English,
- playing sports,
- learning how to play the guitar,
- trying to keep moving (because “no dog has ever peed on a moving car” – Tom Waits [at least according to some sources]),
- enjoying it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’m not sure, but I’d like to believe that they notice and remember the look on my face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don’t want to bore you with some lengthy lists. So maybe it would be better to limit them to top tens, or rather the lists of ten representative examples in each category (because I always have some difficulties deciding which one is the best).

Books: Of Mice and Men, Lolita, Empire of the Sun, Catch 22, The Master and Margarita, Lord of the Flies, The Wasp Factory, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, On the Road, The Bonfire of the Vanities.

Movies: Forrest Gump, Easy Rider, Into the Wild, The Piano, The Pianist, Gladiator, Hable con ella, Taxi Driver, Le grand bleu, Heima. For more go to

Shows & series: Top Gear, The Decalogue (it may seem the odd one out among the other shows and series in here, but since it’s a drama series by definition, I decided to squeeze it in), Late Show with David Letterman, Later... with Jools Holland, Inventions That Changed the World, Game of Thrones, Balcony TV, Game; Set & Mats, Teatr Telewizji, Invisible Worlds.

Music: Radiohead, Jimi Hendrix, Tom Waits, The Cinematic Orchestra, Pink Floyd, Massive Attack, Pearl Jam, Led Zeppelin, Tool, Red Hot Chili Peppers. For more, go to:

Food: spaghetti, pizza, pierogi, pancakes, kofta (esp. vegan:P), lasagna, apples, strawberries, chocolate, ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- air,
- water,
- good food,
- music,
- sport,
- good books.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
To start with that one, I have to tell you that I don’t like the idea of typical Friday nights (that sounds a bit like falling prey to some boring routines). But if you press me I’d say that on a typical Friday night I am:
- listening to music and relaxing,
- hanging out with my friends,
- coming home for a weekend,
- surfing the internet,
- playing tennis,
- practicing my guitar-playing,
- reading books,
- watching movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
there's a bluebird in my heart that
wants to get out
but I'm too tough for him,
I say, stay in there, I'm not going
to let anybody see

Sorry for using Bukowski’s words
but I’m too tough for uttering this with my own.

(But wait ... oh no! - paradoxically my most private thing ceased to be so private now that I've shared it with you.)
You should message me if
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you feel like doing this, (and, please, don’t be shy, just go for it;)).