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25 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Jul 27
White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
A friend once called me the Keith Richards a la Jack Sparrow, and I like to think I deserved it. Be the change you want to see, right? And I want a world filled with wobbly rock stars. Wobbly rock stars you've never heard of everywhere.

I go climbing, I bike everywhere, I am always looking to get into the woods. Give me trees rocks and moss and I'm happy. I go dancing, do yoga, know how to juggle. Basically I'm a huge fan of all the different things there are to do with a body. So versatile! Not just moving, however; I'm also an expert lounger. Snuggles and tv. If cookies are involved: perfection. If not, I'll bake some.

I love long conversation on big ideas. I like understanding how things are put together; refrigerators, ant hives, systems of privilege. You know. Stuff.
What I’m doing with my life
I moved to Portland not too long ago, having somewhat recently acquiring a degree in physics. I work at a climbing gym, teaching a bit and running kids programs.
I’m really good at
Board games. Climbing things. Hugs. Sleeping in a tent. Dancing. Making tasty foods and treats. Questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ken Kesey, Terry Pratchett, Ian M. Banks, Patrick Rothfuss, Malcolm Gladwell, Mary Roach, David Sedaris, Neil Gaiman. GRRM is a guilty pleasure. Lonesome Dove, Endurance, Blankets, the Bell Jar.

Movies: Amelie, Eternal Sunshine, LotR, Star Wars, The Good the Bad and the Ugly, Die Hard (the best Christmas movie).

Shows: Firefly, Doctor Who, Community, Adventure Time, Cowboy Bebop.

Games: Shadow of the Colossus, Okami, Harvest Moon, Dominion, Smash Up!, and the most cutthroat, fast-paced game I've played: the Monopoly card game.

Music: Tallest Man, Black Keys, Pink Floyd, Clapton, Bon Iver, Modest Mouse, Macklemore, Kings of Leon, Mumford & Sons, Alexi Murdoch, Bright Eyes, Girlyman, Hendrix, the Stones, The Who, Radical Face, Simon & Garfunkel, Buble, Chopin, Beethoven, Velvet Underground, Regina Spektor, Ingrid Michaelson, The Mountain Goats, Avett Brothers, Allman Brothers, the Hunts, Foreign Fields, and on and on seriously it's music what do you expect?

My favorite food is whatever food I'm eating.
The six things I could never do without
Contact with people I love. Physical activity. Stimulating conversation. Good food. Being outside.

Eh, number six I'll keep to myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I could be doing better. Social structures and where/who they are failing. How the world fits together. People and perspectives. The ridiculous interconnectivity of our lives and the sobering separation of the millions of people who don't know anything about each other. Sonder. Love, relationship, communication, sex. Kyriarchy, oppression, privilege. Where I would adventure given the option.
On a typical Friday night I am
Climbing, dancing, dance party, game night, or at home cooking up a nice dinner because there's isn't really anything special about Fridays and it's always a good night for a nice dinner. If I don't work the weekend I try to go on bigger adventures. Little adventures are ok too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not having read Dune is a hit to my nerd cred.

Alternatively: I have nerd cred.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You don't take things too seriously. You like a good adventure. You think traditional gender roles are so last year.

You like cookies, cuddles, and consent.

I'm not really looking to start anything serious. Stuff happens as it happens.