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28 Manchester, NH Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 2
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Seeing Someone
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm polyamorous. I'd like a partner who is at least okay with that. No, I'm not asking you to be involved with my other partner, or my partner's partners. Just getting to know them, and understanding that they all play an important role in our chosen family. We care about each other very much, and spend as much time together as possible. If that's something that you'd like, hit me up.

I like the idea of a new partner already having a significant other or being very secure in themselves. While being poly is definitely rewarding, often times, one finds oneself with a fair amount of alone time. Not going to lie, this is something I struggle with.

If you're into that sort of thing, chances are you've already slept with someone I know. NH is pretty small, so let's all play nice, k?

I'm a libertarian with anarcho-capitalist leanings. I like making money and I like keeping it. I'm also pretty goddamned smart. If these things bother you, move along.

I'm gender-fluid/neutral. My gender presentation/expression is sometimes a little bit of a mindfuck. Delightfully absurd and deliberately imperfect is how I roll. I like to think of myself as a Northerner with a Southern soul. I'm a swing-dancing gothabilly circus-gypsy with cabaret leanings and a penchant for autumn decor. Also, I like stompy boots.

I love being outdoors. Hiking, body-boarding, camping, riding motorcycles, and so forth. The only caveat is that I'm also ridiculously light-sensitive, so please plan accordingly.

I like hanging out with smart people. If I can learn something new from you, kudos. Knowledge is awesome. Read my interests.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an Esthetics Instructor. I teach skin physiology, makeup, facials, microdermabrasions, etc. This is after having lived in four states and traveled for a while. I moved up here in 2010 from New Orleans, and before that, Wisconsin.

I'm also a part-time alternative model. Yes, I get paid.

I ballroom dance, sing, draw, apply extreme makeup, prance like a ninny, and sew. I plan to include the following in my repertoire:
Ballet (already have 8 years under my belt)
Ballroom dance (improving technique is always good)
Technical design for theatre and stage productions
Makeup for stage and film
Business Management
Cosmetic product formulation

If I do nothing else in life, I want to launch a line of cosmetics, and own/run a nightclub. Both of these will cater especially to alternative and artsy types.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm ridiculously good at finding things. I spend hours online, searching for just the right thing. If I can't find what you're looking for, I know someone who can.
When I love, it's pretty much boundlessly. If I say that I love you, I'll mean it forever. However, this does not mean I'll stick around if you hurt me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Acquaintances also tend to pick up on the fact that I'm really morbid (but yet, bizarrely bubbly) within the first 30 minutes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Melancholy Death of Oyster Boy and Other Stories, Tim Burton
The Asylum for Wayward Victorian Girls, Emilie Autumn
Prey, Michael Crichton (And pretty much everything else he's ever written)
Soulless, Gail Carriger

Interview with the Vampire
Frankenstein (With Kenneth Branagh)
Star Wars
The People vs. Larry Flynt
The Matrix
V for Vendetta
The Prestige

Game of Thrones
Better Off Ted
My Name is Earl
The Way We Live Now
True Blood
Star Trek
Whatever happens to be on that doesn't suck.
Food Network

Music is my lifeblood. It moves me in ways that spoken word never will.
Oomph!, VNV Nation, Unheilig, Sleepthief, Adam Lambert, Bing Crosby, Professor Elemental, Darren Hayes, Ghost Dance, Nat King Cole, Goldfrapp, Armin van Buuren, Phynn, Chicane, OceanLab/Above & Beyond, Nitrous Oxide, Lindsey Stirling, Iris, Mistle Thrush, Secret Garden, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, Horrorpops, Neuroticfish, The Cult, The Chop Tops, 38 Special, Boston, Skeletal Family, Men Without Hats, Ofra Haza, The Cramps, Stray Cats, Lucia Micarelli, Shiny Toy Guns, Danny Elfman, Natalie MacMaster, Kanon Wakeshima, Joseph Birdsong, Yo-Yo Ma, Mark O'Connor, Sir Elton John, Van Halen, Supertramp, Billy Joel, Styx, Queen, Celtic music, Romantic Classical, Baroque music, Elvis Presley, Platform One, Johnny Cash, Jazz, Ragtime, Clan of Xymox, Benny Goodman, Glenn Miller, Code 64, Depeche Mode, Fall Out Boy, Swarf, David Bowie, Berlin, Duran Duran, Adam and the Ants, Abney Park, Squirrel Nut Zippers, Dean Martin, Gotan Project, Frank Sinatra, Swing music, Caravan Palace, Specimen, The Mission UK, The Sisters of Mercy, Bauhaus, Bela Bartok, Frederic Chopin, J.S.Bach, Amanda Palmer, The Dresden Dolls, The Divine Madness, Rock Kills Kid, She Wants Revenge, Omega Lithium, Mindless Self Indulgence, Mina Harker, Puscifer, Ink Dot Boy, I:Scintilla, HIM, And One, :Wumpscut:, Grendel, Sopor Aeternus & the Ensemble of Shadows, Faith and the Muse, Emilie Autumn, Covenant, and similar things.

Various Asian cuisines and Italian foods are my favorites. I adore French pastries, but I had to stop eating gluten. Booooooo.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Corsets
2. Boots
3. Headphones
4. Adventure!
5. My computer. Most of my friends are across the country, and therefore, also in my computer.
6. Someone to cuddle with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not thinking about what I could have done differently. I try to figure out in what order I'll accomplish things, or if I will at all.
Sometimes I have one of those weird moments wherein I wonder if anything is actually real.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching movies with friends or making food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a fetishist and an alternative model. I enjoy many aspects of BDSM, and they play a huge role in my life. This is NOT a license for you to be lewd. Simply take it to mean that if you aren't into some slightly weird shit, we may not be compatible.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*You don't mind that I have a primary relationship, and I'm only looking for fun and friendship for now.
*You have similar clothing and music tastes, we could go shopping or clubbing.
*You don't have any numbers in your username. <-- THAT.
*You can spell.