You have nothing to prove to me. I do not think that I'm "too good for you", or that you need to woo me in some quaint fashion. At the same time, I also have nothing to prove to you. If I feel that you expect me to fawn all over you because you gave me attention, then you are shit out of luck. I appreciate well-composed messages, and thought provoking questions. If you deserve to know my favorite positions, you'll probably find out eventually. ;)
So, I'm kind of a newbie-queer. I came out to my mum about...4 years ago, and she conveniently "lost" the email. I identify more as pansexual than bisexual, because gender binaries piss me off, and I like attractive people. Attractive doesn't necessarily mean, "is _____ sex."
On top of that, I'm gender-fluid/neutral. My gender presentation/expression is sometimes a little bit of a mindfuck, but I've noticed that it usually tends to compliment the person I'm most attracted to at the time. Oh, and, I'm in primary relationship with a man. Basically, I'm a bio-female who is attracted to chicks but has very little experience.
So, now that you know how I like to get down, let's move on.
Also, don't ASSUME this means that I'll want to get down.
Delightfully absurd and deliberately imperfect is how I roll. I like to think of myself as a Northerner with a Southern soul. I'm a swing-dancing gothabilly circus-gypsy with cabaret leanings and a penchant for autumn decor. Also, I like stompy boots.
I love being outdoors. Hiking, body-boarding, camping, riding motorcycles, and so forth.
If you have the potential to communicate intelligibly with me, but choose not to, I will get bored and start ignoring you.
I like hanging out with smart people. If I can learn something new from you, kudos. Knowledge is awesome. Read my interests.