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Last online
Yesterday – 7:19pm
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Might want kids
English, French (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a writer, & I used to study the brain.

Lived in Paris for a while in college and in Okayama and Kyoto, Japan for three years after. Love the lit, film & graphic novels of both countries.

I've worked as a teacher, translator, dream researcher, brain imager, house painter, and park maintenance tech. Never burned any corpses, but worked with a guy who did, at the hospital.
What I’m doing with my life
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Freelance writing for the Atlantic, Fast Company, the Week, Nautilus, GQ, etc. & occasionally for documentaries. Mostly about the brain & curing insanity.

Writing. Reporting. Reading. Exploring. Traveling whenever I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm enthusiastic. Too curious to act aloof.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Writers: J.D. Salinger, Faulkner, Woolf, John Barth, Haruki Murakami, David Foster Wallace, Jonathan Franzen, Nabokov, Kundera, Frank O'Hara, Yukio Mishima, Kerouac, Ginsberg, Camus. I also love to read history-- e.g. Japanese-American history by John Dower; American Revolutionary history by Joseph Ellis and David McCullough-- and science writing by folks like Oliver Sacks & Atul Gawande.

Music: Conor Oberst. folk singers Paul Curreri, Dave Van Ronk, and Devon Sproule. jazz musicians Charlie Parker, Thelonius Monk, Coltrane, Mingus, Ellington, and The Bad Plus. The Flaming Lips, Why?, The Magnetic Fields, Bright Eyes, Smog, Modest Mouse, Elliot Smith, and Weezer. also some top-40 music, like Nicki Minaj, Lil Wayne, and The Roots, and old country music, like Hank Williams.

Movies: dramas, smart comedies, and psychological thrillers. love auteur filmmakers like Woodie Allen, Francois Truffaut, Wang Kar Wai and Pedro Almodovar, also lighter comedies like Judd Apatow's. classic thrillers like Silence Of The Lambs, and old film noir. 1950s movies-- e.g. All About Eve; Sunset Boulevard; The Apartment-- and I have a soft spot for courtroom dramas-- everything from Otto Preminger's "Anatomy of a Murder" with Jimmy Stuart to "A Few Good Men" with Tom Cruise and Jack Nicholas. Documentaries, too, especially true crime & science & history.

Tv: Girls, Breaking Bad, The Sopranos, The Wire, Arrested Development, and Six Feet Under; or sometimes documentaries. Oh, and I also love Community & 30 Rock, & Freaks & Geeks is probably my favorite non-cable series ever. I like How I Met Your Mother, too, because I like Jason Segel, and anybody else from that original F&G cast.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Outdoor places to run or go hiking.
2. Books
3. Travel
4. Serotonin in the synapse
5. iPhone calendar to keep my life straight
6. imagination & ambition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the brain, why we dream, how to write words that move people
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends.