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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jun 20
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm a poly, anarchist former baker who likes to practice massage, dancing, cooking and craftsmanship. Good music, good food and good people make life worth living. I enjoy telling and hearing stories and jokes. My favorite holiday (season) is Mardi Gras. I have a passion for collectives. I am a husband and a father and love both roles!

I am nurturing, prepared/spontaneous, and competent
What I’m doing with my life
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Figuring out ways to pull the supports out from under the thrashing, gasping Tyrannosaurus Rex of Capitalism (by creative resistance, cooking for the daily revolution (Food Not Bombs and mass action kitchens), and increasing my personal and community sustainability) and maybe shanking said T Rex in the neck whenever possible.

Working in health care

Tai chi and escrima (not always the best combo)

Done--Baking (mostly danishes, croissants, eclairs, cookies, cinnamon twists, etc.) in a 32 y.o. collectively owned and operated anti-authoritarian bakery

Feeding and massaging my friends and community

Done--Repairing and reconfiguring a 100 year old house

Learning how to be a good father and uncle (and lovin' every bit of it)

Writing (mostly mid-Crash sci fi/near future fiction)

(mogobo says: he's the coolest guy i know, but not ever cooler-than-thou. you should meet him.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Massage, Baking, Dancing, Telling the truth, Cunnilingus, Dumpster Diving, (Padded) sword fighting, First Aid, Playing with kids, getting a party to shake its collective booty, Kissing, Climbing trees
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, warmth and (sometimes dark) sense of humor

mogobo says: whatever he's feeding you. how good his hands feel on your shoulders. beautiful eyes behind cute glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Jorge Luis Borges, Jeanette Winterson, Neil Gaiman, Howard Zinn, Terry Pratchett

Movies: Dune, Lives of Others,Scifi and fantasy that values story more than CGI wizardry, Blade Runner

Music: Anything that makes me shake it. Fela Kuti, Galactic, Fischer-Spooner, Be Good Tanyas, Ani, Devil Makes Three, the Coup, Sidestepper, Manu Chao, Beirut, Sly & the Family Stone, DJ Cheb i Sabbah, One Man Banjo, Leningrad, John Prine, Balkan Beat Box, Handsome Boy Modeling School, Gorillaz, any cleverly done genre-wrecking cover that makes me laugh

Food: Crawfish etouffe, Cinnamon Twists, bananas, berries, pears, apples, figs, good cheeses, Pad See Ew, sushi, Messer Wot and Injera, Aloo Gobi, banh mi, pho, broccoli, kale
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Honest and nurturing friendships with good reciprocity
2. Music/Dancing
3. Good music, food and people
4. umm. . . roughly 79% nitrogen, 21% oxygen, 1% argon, 0.04% carbon dioxide, and around 1% water vapor at around 14.7 psi
5. Touch positive and sex positive community
6. Autonomy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hamstringing corporations and the prison/military/industrial complex
Stories of magic and cleverness
My lovers and friends
How to thrive amidst catastrophe
Better ways of living and doing
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking dinner and playing games with a sweetie

mogobo notes: he can also shake it like nobody's business. i think 'boogie' is his other middle name.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I often like to give head more than fuck.
I carry (but don't currently express) HPV.
I'm a shy dork inside of an extrovert
You should message me if
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You want to go dancing, trade massage and smash the state--all in the same night.