Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a fat, femme, diva with a soft spot for butches and
masculine/androgynous presenting babes. bonus points if you also
happen to have a pet I can cuddle.
I identify as alien or aliengender: It's an identity I came up with
cuz I'm autistic, and navigating in a non-autistic world feels like
being an alien and trying really hard to pass as an earthling and
failing. Feel free to ask me more about this if you're
Queer crip looking to make friends with other queer disabled peeps
(seriously, message me so we can be friends and I will probably
make you homemade curry).
I'm a musician and a songwriter currently working towards building
my career as a solo artist; I'm both excited and humbled that my
dreams are just starting to turn into an actual career!
My first love was Sporty Spice (no regrets).
My idea of working out is learning the choreography to Lady Gaga
Sometimes when I'm bored in class I doodle artistic nudes of
I like to think I'm the type of person you date if you want someone
to come home to; I'm content curling up on the couch with some wine
and watching netflix or playing boardgames together and making each
other laugh . It's simple moments such as these that tend to be the
Oh and INFP and HufflePuff if anyone cares.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-Watching documentaries about insects.
-Creating intersectional queer cinema
-drinking cheap moscato
-Making white people feel uncomfortable
-And cuddling all the animals. Cuz what would life be without
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Winning prizes from claw machines, cooking, removing a spider from
the house while everyone else is screaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair. It's never subtle and always changing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dykes to Watch Out for, Persepolis, The Tale of Desperaux,
Hot n' Heavy, Fat!So?, Stone Butch Blues, The Hunger Games Trilogy,
Generation Dead Trilogy, Politically Correct Bedtime Stories,
TV: Orange is the New Black, American Horror Story, My Name is
Earl, Raising Hope, Bob's Burgers, King of the Hill, Pee Wee's
Playhouse, Old School Pokemon.
Movies: Leading Ladies, Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World, A.I., Lady in
the Water, But I'm a Cheerleader, Edward Scissorhands, Clueless,
Dear White People, Girls Will Be Girls, and admittedly, The Spice
Girls Movie (Come on, it's a cult classic!)
Music: The Album Back to Black by Amy Winehouse moves me to
Food: Take me to get some kick- ass Thai or Mediterranean food and
I'll love you forever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Cat and Dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Cute butch babes, feminist stuff, food, sex, Cis-privilege, racism,
ableism, my kinks, how cute my cat is, plus size clothes I wanna
make, day dreams, my future, how awesome it would be to own a pet
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably watching Netflix with my cat and eating takeout.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once crocheted a strap-on harness.
You should message me if
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You're a disabled queer and want to make friends with a fellow
disabled queer that will probs cook you delicious homemade
You're an animal loving butch with a soft spot for fat
You want to show me pictures of your pets
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