I'm a busy guy...I have a corporate drone job I actually like, I'm a writer, bicyclist, jogger (too slow to really be called a runner), blogger, reader, foodie, wino, homebody, motorcyclist and explorer.
I like to laugh which makes me wonder if anyone DOESN'T like to laugh, but then I see so many non-smiling profile pictures. What's that about?
I'm in decent shape and getting slowly decent-er, although I admit it's more about resisting the rising tide of age and infirmity than about how I look in the mirror (although that's getting better too, I'm told).
The guys who curl my toes are usually slimmer than me, from 35 - 45 years old, not much into any scene (bears, bars, whatever), are a little introverted and pretty confident. I'm also completely open to being surprised by stuff other than that.