People who are hard to describe are the best people. Self-security is attractive to me and I have an unbelievably precise bullshit detector honed to a razor's edge over years of paying attention. Paying attention is my finest attribute. I see things no-one else can. A good friend told me once she'd pay money to see the world through my eyes. I recommended against it, of course. I might recommend it if you can do that sort of shamanic journeying, but then again, who wants visitors unannounced?
A teacher is giving a public lecture at a fine college, untangling the symbolism in a book. A man stands up and says, "Those things don't mean what you say! you're wrong!"
The teacher asks, "who do you think you are, to know better than I what these passages mean?"
"I'm the author!" comes the reply.
"So?" The teacher answers.
I have a partner, uisghejack, who is awesome. We tend to share a taste in amazing people, but we're not actively looking for a third, just dating independently. We've had 3-person relationships before, always to great success. Our genitalia are benign but not to be discussed here.
Queer. Two-spirit, actually. Ask me about it.