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26 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:30am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Other, and laughing about it
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I break people open. I exude some sort of reality field; people feel safe around me and I do nothing that would endanger that assumption. Yet, around me people cry, laugh, burst forth into rapturous expression as they tear down the walls they forgot they built.

uisghejack is my partner and has a similar effect on people through different means, though the machinations of it surpass my full comprehension. We make an incredible team and plan a future together, but we keep our own spaces and spend a lot of time apart

I tell some stories and live others. I like to sing a lot and dance, though dancing with a partner is often difficult. I will absolutely go dancing with you, but you must promise to take pity!

Some days I drive into the mountains, hike until sunset, roll out a bag, then sleep.

It can take a very long time indeed to get to know me. I will tell you anything you'd like, but I am a more rewarding friend over the long term. I prefer people to stick around.

I'm queer, that should be known. What does it mean? Mostly it means I have a tendency to wind up dating multiple lesbians and other queer folk. I'm strange.

Don Quixote is a personal inspiration.
The six things I could never do without
I'm really big on touch. My body needs it like air. it's not a sexual thing, though the two needs can be mixed. I'm actually a bit shy about it at first, so please be forward!

I dig deep into people. I love strongly and quickly and I try to surround myself with the sort of folk my intensity feeds rather than leeches from. Those people are a part of who I am and no less a need than the food I eat.

Can't do without the woods, and the mountains. They hold my heart.

Certain parts of me are alive when I travel. I am nomadic to some degree.

I have a powerful need to be understood, and I make it my hobby and passion to understand others.

Self-expression is paramount to my sanity. I express through dance, song--music of any kind--and through projects and ideas. I write children's stories when they are inside my head and need to come out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How concepts like "racist" and "sexist" are outdated to the point of being harmful in discourse in Seattle and like progressive places.

I think a lot about what my disabilities cause me to miss and how to cope with that. I think a lot about what what I can change in my head and what must be coped with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cry a lot. I laugh a lot, too.

Sometimes when the chemistry is there, I don't make a move because I'm afraid the intimacy will force the relationship to move too fast, trading the chemistry that I really enjoyed for physical satisfaction that doesn't last. I have my insecurities.

I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I like connections. I like understanding people on deep levels; emotionally, spiritually, physically, mentally. Sometimes this happens very quickly, but often it takes a long time, so I tend to be discerning with the people I keep around me. I'm looking for physical relationships, but I can't really do casual--I have to be friends at least, partners work better. I fall in love easily, but I let go easily.