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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-33
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 10
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Other and laughing about it
Might want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Dance card full atm. Sorry, folks.

People who are hard to describe are the best people. Self-security is attractive to me and I have an unbelievably precise bullshit detector honed to a razor's edge over years of paying attention. Paying attention is my finest attribute. I see things no-one else can. A good friend told me once she'd pay money to see the world through my eyes. I recommended against it, of course. I might recommend it if you can do that sort of shamanic journeying, but then again, who wants visitors unannounced?

A teacher is giving a public lecture at a fine college, untangling the symbolism in a book. A man stands up and says, "Those things don't mean what you say! you're wrong!"
The teacher asks, "who do you think you are, to know better than I what these passages mean?"
"I'm the author!" comes the reply.
"So?" The teacher answers.

I have a partner, uisghejack, who is awesome. We tend to share a taste in amazing people, but we're not actively looking for a third, just dating independently. We've had 3-person relationships before, always to great success. Our genitalia are benign but not to be discussed here.

Queer. Two-spirit, actually. Ask me about it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm switching careers again, from bicycles to massage. Before that I was a trails and restoration tech. I practice medical massage, mostly working with injuries.

I host a movie night weekly and have for the last 4 years. I only show the most interesting movies. not the best, not the most significant, just the most interesting.

I live in an intentional community with 11 other amazing folks. This will be the fourth community I've helped found and it's shaping up to be the most rewarding. I will invite you to dinner!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have really kind eyes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm really big on touch. My body needs it like air. it's not a sexual thing, though the two needs can be mixed. I'm learning how not to be shy about it.

I dig deep into people. I love strongly and quickly and I try to surround myself with the sort of folk my intensity feeds rather than leeches from. Those people are a part of who I am and no less a need than the food I eat.

Can't do without the woods, and the mountains. They hold my heart.

Certain parts of me are alive when I travel. I am nomadic to some degree.

I have a powerful need to be understood, and I make it my hobby and passion to understand others.

Self-expression is paramount to my sanity. I express through dance, song--music of any kind--and through projects and ideas. I write children's stories when they are inside my head and need to come out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try to understand humanity.

I think a lot about how I can apply genderfuck concepts to my grossly overpriveliged status. Priveligefucked?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cry a lot. I laugh a lot, too.

Sometimes when the chemistry is there, I don't make a move because I'm afraid the intimacy will force the relationship to move too fast, trading the chemistry that I really enjoyed for physical satisfaction that doesn't last. I have my insecurities.

You should message me if
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I like connections. show me who you are and I'll date the hell out of you.

If you share an erotic love of Alt-J's music, we should meet.

Alert! I am allergic to pot smoke. It's terribly inconvenient.