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41 Walnut Creek, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
Open relationship
Relationship Type
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Catholicism but it’s not important
Has kids and might want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm pretty direct and honest so figure I won't beat around the bush. I'm a sex positive, kinky, poly Dom who's exploring this site a bit because so many of my friends have been using it and have found some pretty amazing people. I have a couple of existing relationships with amazing people I love, I'm part of the public scene here in the SF Bay Area, I'm a successful tech executive, educated, former collegiate volleyball player and parts of my private life will stay that way for now.

I love reading, movies, and the theater; I spend as much time as I can riding my motorcycle around the hills behind my place. I think just about everything is better with coffee, and chocolate. And I stay in shape running and swimming mostly, though I'll throw some weights and other workouts in when I have the time.

I'll continue to fill out the profile as I spend more time here so feel free to ask me anything you want to know that you don't see!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A few years ago I got divorced and decided to have my lifestyle reflect who I am, not who I was. And I'm enjoying every minute of meeting new people and living my life safely and sanely to it's fullest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Florentine flogging, intellectual discourse, being absurd as much as I'm serious, D/s and flirting...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, I'm 6'5", then my hair, beard and blue eyes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many great books to list, so here are my favorite authors: Tolkien, Dan Simmons, David Brin, Anne Rice, Isaac Asimov, Steven Erikson, Orson Scott Card (except his crazy Mormon shit...), Arthur C. Clarke & Larry Niven

Movies: Lost Boys, Better Off Dead, Empire Strikes Back, Blade Runner, Dune, Holy Grail, Happy Gilmore, Wayne's World, Princess Bride, Wrath of Kahn, 300, Sin City, Dodgeball, Pulp Fiction, Clockwork Orange, Labyrinth, Pan's Labyrinth, most Kevin Smith movies and Pixar too.

Bands: Metallica, Linkin Park, Skrillex, Chemical Brothers, Paul Oakenfold, Zepplin, Alice in Chains, Guns N' Roses, Bruno Mars & Maroon 5, Bingo Players and Hardwell.

Food: A Good Steak, Sushi/Sashimi, Chicken Parmigiana, awesome burritos & great hamburgers
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The ones I love
My friends
My family
Physical affection and intimacy
My motorcycle

Honorable mentions: A great scotch and a good cigar, and Football.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
New business models and marketing opportunities for various businesses I care about or want to start.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm either at home for family time. Or going out to dinner, getting some coffee at my favorite kinky coffee shop, and then relaxing in our local bdsm dungeon play space with our wonderful community of friends and loved ones.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I usually read your profile backwards.

I judge those that can't come up with anything at all to write here or cop out and say ask me...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are interested in learning about kink, you are a bit of a girly girl that likes dressing up and being arm candy, you want to meet someone who is dominant and can help you explore things you've always wanted to try or just know you want. And you want to be friends, or you might want to see if we have a connection and go to a movie, grab a drink or maybe coffee and go from there...