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39 London, UK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 23
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently), Swedish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Mixed race arty type, single mum, love reggae music and sunny days.

Milf extraordinare ;)

I am what is commonly known as a 'real woman'. Which means, I think, that men find me a bit scary. But if you get past that I am, I'm reliably told, well worth it.

I go to the gym, but not religiously. I keep myself nice but I am more concerned with who I am than what I look like, so if you need a woman who is perfectly groomed every moment of her life, who shaves her eyebrows off just to paint them back on, and who tortures herself in three inch heels every day just to look more appealing, then I wish you good luck and goodbye. I look wicked in my trainers. :)

I would love to meet a man to sweep me off my feet, fall mad in love and make more babies. But it's not essential for my happiness, and I am wise enough to know that these things come when they come, searching for them will not help. So in the meantime I am looking for a lover, somebody to make me laugh, to spend a night or a weekend with, maybe go out with from time to time, to eat or to dance, have some great sex, and make each other feel good. And if it turns out you're the one to do the feet-sweeping then great.
If not, well hello anyway. :-)

I am not a party animal. Or rather, I am, but not very often. When I party I do it in style and til the break of dawn, but I much prefer to read a book, make a wicked apple crumble (more crumble less apple), or get hooked up on Photoshop for hours on end. Unless of course you have a better idea.

What else do you want to know?

Oh yeah. I don't take myself too seriously. Life is too short to go round with your head up your arse. Think of all the good stuff I'd miss. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Raising my kid, keeping body and soul together, making life good. Making wicked apple crumble.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking photographs. Editing photographs. And kissing. I'm very good at kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The dreads, I'm guessing. How would I know?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Crimson Petal and the White, Michael Faber
Most books by Isabel Allende
Snowcrash by Neal Stephenson
Life of Pi, Yann Martell
Blueberry Girl, Neil Gaiman
A Fraction of the Whole, Steve Toltz (I think thats how you spell it)
The Master and Margarita, Mikhail Bulgakov
His Dark Materials, Philip Pullman
Whit, Iain Banks
Fingersmith, Sarah Waters
Most books by John Wyndham
Fanny, Erica Jong

Men who stare at goats, American Psycho, Love Object, Ratatouille, Team America - world police, Truman show, Apocalypto, Avatar, Dogma, West side story, The king and I...
I have a weakness for disaster movies, and can have a great time watching utter rubbish. 2012, for example. The biggest load of shit but I love it.

The Wire, The Sopranos, Tremè, Boondocks, Shameless, and.... that's it I think.
I don't actually own a television.

I love reggae, dancehall, funky house, soca music, anything that says yes to life. I also listen to the likes of John Martyn and Joan Armatrading, and so on and so forth. Also Engelbert Humperdinck.

Food... Hmmm. Everything. If I was facing the chair and ordering my last meal on this earth, I would probably go for rare steak, posh cut, with garlic butter and potato dauphinoise. Or seared tuna steak, or wild salmon with salad and fancy fries. Or grilled chicken breast in tarragon butter sauce. Or maybe even some duck a la orange...
Notice not one of these things is vegetarian. Or diet-friendly. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, my camera, my sense of humour, my morning coffee, my good friends and sunshine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You really don't want to know. You'd fall asleep before you finished reading..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am developing a serious aversion to the words easy-going and funloving... The entire male population of OkCupidworld can't be ea-...those things, surely?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have never taken a picture of your naked torso in the mirror with your mobile phone and put it on the internet.

You can spell, and communicate effectively. 'Ur wel fit' will elicit no response from me.

If you are not looking for a new mama, and can confidently say you are an adult. Needy is not sexy.

Melanin is not a thing I insist upon but I'll admit I quite like it.

And last but not least, if you reckon yourself as a lover. That I really do insist upon. Ask yourself: do your ex-lovers still want to sleep with you?