If you message me, try to say something more original then "hi" or "want to talk". If you're gonna do that, at least be a value add and offer to do my laundry.
Other than that, my chick friends all tell me that online guys are timid and wimpy. Just a heads up, that's not me. I'm a traditionally masculine guy, someone that knows how to laugh at life. I've also got an edge, I'm a bit of a bad boy, not a treat-you-like crap kinda guy, just someone that pushes you to your limits, but pulls you back into my arms at the right moment.