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23 F Arcata, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:02pm
Native American
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Dropped out of high school
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
I am in an open relationship, I do not identify with polyamory, I most likely would never want to sleep with you.

ATTN: if I actually like you enough to agree to a date, you will pay for all the things. I am a spoiled princess, dem tha rules.

Queerdo, gender fluid, feminist, cruelty-free, FAT, body posi, sex posi, kind of asexual, but not really, fuck if i know, introvert, self love enthusiast, voyeur, yada yada.

I really like traveling, comics, movie time and fort building.

Social justice and babes and money.
What I’m doing with my life
Very little having to do with academics, marriage or babies.

Quite a bit having to do with traveling, finding new adventurous and endeavors, searching for a sense of community, trying to figure out this whole human connection thing. Befriending cats along the way.

To be perfectly honest, in my ultimate dream I will work on fabulous film sets for many a year. After which I can afford a decent piece of property snuggled somewhere between the forest and sea. Where I can have a creepy little cottage, surrounded by gardens and gates and live out my days playing dress up with my cats.

I will do it!
I will do what I dream!
I’m really good at
Being a brat, having inappropriate crushes.
The first things people usually notice about me
Clearly the fact that I'm an amazonian space queer warrior babe.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All things fantasy, sci-fi, pretentious and cheesey.

The Cat who went to Heaven, and similarly all kinds of folklore and fairytale, Terminator Two and Strike!, Star Trek: TOS, most forms of angry girl music and mangoes.
The six things I could never do without
cats, travel, books, fancy duds, tattoos and shit to nerd out on
I spend a lot of time thinking about
space babes

And how to keep a healthy balance between my own needs and the needs of my community. And how much I actually care and how much that will affect current and future relationships.

Would I rather be a crew member on the Enterprise or Serenity?
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm not going to lie to you, I really would rather stay in and watch Buffy than go to your friends party. I'd also rather go hiking than go to the corner bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I daydream about making out with fictional characters and sometimes my armpits smell like a ball sac.

There's nothing private about me if you're willing to ask.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you're hella queer.
You like watching "bad" movies.
You like walking around in the very early morning.
You want to go on some impulsive escapade.
You want to make me food.
You've got some obscure talent and wanna teach me.
You want me to call you daddy.
You're a ginger.
You want to read me stories.
You want our pets to be friends.
You wanna make out.

You should NOT message me if:
You're a dude-bro.
If you are a poly couple or person and your sole intent is to invite me to bed.
You grew a beard instead of a personality.
You're an art major.
You're idea of a good time is hanging out at the same bar every other night or smoking a bowl before doing anything.
You are any variety of a misogynist.
You excessively reference internet words/jokes in real life.
You've lived in your hometown you're whole life you think it's just the greatest place ever.
If you think you're welcome to dictate or fetishize mine, or anyone else's body, ever.