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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 11:37am
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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South londoner, i'm your typical laid back, creative type. I know these are cliches and unhelpful, but trust me that they are probably also accurate.

I am a strange polarisation of two types of man -one day, i might be a massive manchild watching cartoons, playing video games and getting takeout pizza - the next i'm a cultured gentlemen, with a glass of red after having seen the latest National Theatre play. I'd like to settle into a decent middleground, but I think that's where you come in. Which honestly, would be a good thing because it can result in bizarre days where I organise meetings and work things, geek out on Mario Kart or Splatoon (wii U) and then end up somewhere like a nice wine bar or central london cocktail bar!
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work for a charity in SW London. It's all part if my aim to work in events with charities, which has become somewhat of a campaign for me. I mean, its amazing how much a)fun it is b) how you can literally FEEL the progress of growth and c) how much dedication it takes...! I used to be a graphic designer but I decided it wasn't for me. No offense to designers -i'm still one of you!- I just have started doing it as a hobby instead of killing my creativity for the corporate stakeholders!

On top of all that I have been doing a variety of volunteer charity work since May '14. In addition to working with a children's charity I am also the manager for the Oxjam Clapham Music festival and I warn you if you ask me I will sell you the elevator pitch! Just a heads up ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being oblivious to your feelings about me? Once you break through that wall I'm plenty flirty trust me... But sometimes it takes a few drinks... and a big card board sign saying "i like you" might help haha.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Beard, probably.

Or, if you like south west london/posh british accents, that!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This is an insane amount of info to ask for.

Anything with a good story. I also like bad shows that have creative approaches to issues which means i like a lot of sci fi fantasy. You know the whole, tackling racism by highlighting prejudice against robots sort of thing. I also like political satire. And the lion king.

Metal, rock, punk, ska, folk, acoustic, reggae, pop (some not much).

Scarlett Thomas books, Paulo Cohelo, gabriel garcia marquez, and, a lot of dystopian novels. And magical realism. Perhaps some non fiction but not loads of it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could probably live without most things in my life.
So... water,food,friends,family,- the rest is all subjective surely?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to become the man I want to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Celebrating the end of the week with work colleagues, friends or my bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In most cases I'm an open book, so
For the few secrets I keep close, chances are my closest friends might have a hard time getting to them.
You should message me if
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You want to get chatting and maybe go out. I will have more respect for the ladies who message me than wait to be messaged - like many I can get a bit lost in the messages and I try to respond to as many as I can.