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25 Albion, RI Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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Hispanic / Latin
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My name is Joan (pronounced JOE-ON).

I'll start with a quote I heard once. "If you don't know where you are going to be in five years, you're already there." This simple quote recently, helped me get my act together.

Creativity is like second nature for me, hence the profile name. I love poetry and dabble in writing it myself. For as long as I can remember, art has been a part of my life. My first good drawing was of Johnny Appleseed with a deer eating an apple when I was 5 or so (I still have it). I am also very handy and can cook pretty damn well.

I try not to let things slow me down and have some serious goals in line that I am slowly fulfilling. One of my smaller goals is to learn to dance bachata, merengue, salsa, and tango; how is it I am Hispanic and barley have moves. We should take dance classes together, no?

I'm a pretty easy going and laid back individual. I try not to let small things bother me and move on with my day. That may have sounded cliche, but a lot of my friends have commented how they have rarely ever seen me genuinely mad about something. I'm very organized and cleanliness is a priority for me. I'm an introvert by nature, but if I'm comfortable with you or the crowd I'm with that goes straight out the door. Let's put it like this my family and some of my more privileged friends think I'm crazy. You'll just have to be the judge of that...

Lately, I have been all about routine. I've found that in the past, I would break a lot of my schedule, because I would do "spare of the moment" things. I like things planned ahead, but have found I'm more of a "game time decision" type of guy.

Health is one of my main priorities today. I used to way 230 lbs in 2010 and I'm happy to say I am nowhere near that anymore. I'm currently 56 lbs lighter aiming for an ideal weight of between 155-165, though I might look sick at 155. I can attribute that to a combination of proper eating, Insanity, and now going to the gym days a week; a lot of HIITS, strength training and circuit workouts. I'm not aiming to be a meat head, so full body workouts all day, every day for me. I am a huge calorie counter. A couple of previous co-workers said to me "calorie counters are prone to anxiety attacks. Look at us, we don't care." I replied "yeah, you're prone to heart attacks."

I used to be huge into video games, and I do still play on occasion, but not as much as I used to. I probably play no more than 4-5 hrs/wk. RPG's are my favorite. The Mass Effect series was amazing story telling and game play wise. "If video games have taught me anything, it's that if you've encountered enemies, you're going the right way."

What I can't express out loud I usually tend to write down in my sketchbook and never turn to that page again. This is the method I find for clearing my mind. Just haven't found that special someone yet I feel comfortable sharing everything with. Who knows, maybe you could be that person? :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently, I am a Design Engineer for TriMark UE. We're the largest provider of equipment, supplies and design services to the food industry. It's a pretty sweet gig and a lot better and less stressful than my previous job, where I frequently worked 50+ hour weeks; sucked up a lot of my time.

I workout five days a week and count my calories everyday, while keeping track in a small calender I made with some basic exercise /health/caloric information. HIITS is big and works a lot better than steady pace exercises.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at art especially, graphite and pen drawings, watercolors, computer media (such as Illustrator and Photoshop). I'm also great at AutoCAD, Revit, and designing buildings/houses and creating photo-realistic renderings.

I'm also pretty good at baseball, football, and cooking. Scratch that, I'm an amazing cook. Challenge me if you dare :p No, but seriously!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I always get compliments on my smile, but recently I've also been getting compliments on having great jawline scruff. Ultimately, you can be the judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Elias Canetti's Crowds and Power, Sherman Alexie's Ten Little Indians, Pietro Di Donato's Christ in Concrete, Sharon Draper's Tears of a Tiger, and Willa Cather's My Antonia, to name a few.

Movies: The Mask, Forest Gump (all time), The Lion King, Shooter, Friday, Next Friday, Friday After Next, The Avengers, The Batman Series, and admittedly The Notebook. This list could keep going....

Shows: Smallville, Supernatural, Sons of Anarchy, The Sopranos, The Walking Dead, Tosh.0, Key & Peele, South Park, Family Guy, Arrow, Falling Skies, World's Dumbest..., The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Rules of Engagement, Tyler Perry's House of Payne, Family Matters, Boy Meets Worlds.

Music: Rap/Hip-Hop, Rock, Classic Rock, Jazz, Blues, Country, R&B, Pop. JJ Grey & Mofro are my favorite rock/soul/blues/funk/folk band, or as they refer to themselves "Swamp Rock." They're not huge, but they're songs are great. I highly recommend you check them out. All time favorite artist is Eminem. He's just a monster!!! (I went to Eminem and Rihanna's "The Monster" tour at MetLife Stadium and it was AMAZING!!!).

Food: Spanish, Caribbean, Italian, Chinese, Mexican, Portuguese, and though I've yet to try it I'm sure Indian would be up there. I love spicy food. My favorite thing on this earth are French Fries. I can eat French Fries any day at any time. It's very hard to disappoint me with them. As a matter of fact, the only fries I can recollect as absolutely disgusting are those of In-N-Out burger. They're bland ad have the consistency of wet cardboard...not that I've eaten wet cardboard or anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Humor, an education, art/music.

I had three other things on here, but honestly thinking about it as humans we can endure without a lot. We adapt.

I would include friends and family but they aren't things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future and what it will entail. People always say live in the present, but these tend to be people without ambitions. To be realistic, I also think a lot about the past when things were much more simpler.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I used to go out a lot, but man how that has died down drastically. I'm perfectly content with just staying in now and binge watching Netflix. I probably go out once a month now, twice tops, but partying is not that my priority anymore.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to say being on this site, but that's not private anymore. I used to be embarrassed by it, but not anymore. Why should I be? Love can be found in the most unexpected and obscure places.

I am willing to admit that I was once dared to chew up a blood worm for $30 and I did it. I think I came out winning. I got my protein for the day and cash lol.
You should message me if
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You would like to meet up and get to know each other over dinner or drinks, better yet a casual walk or hike around a park. The less usual the better.

You like what you read and think we can hit it off.

I've heard some of the horror stories you girls have gone through, and I can assure you I am not here for a one night stand or anything of that sort. I want to build a relationship and see where we go from there :)

If you would just like to talk. I'm down to chat on this for a while before an actual meet. No rush. As skeptical as you may be, I am probably a lot more.