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CreativeFellow

63 M Walnut Creek, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 53–67
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Dislikes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was an only child and it suited me. I have an independent nature. I have a rich imagination. I’m reasonably smart and creative, and I possess a curiosity about the world around me that keeps me amused and entertained. The people I know casually through our common interests or circumstance seem to mostly fulfill my need for social interaction.

But still, here I am on a dating site. I'm not lonely, but I know that just being around a special woman can make life exhilarating.

I’m looking for someone I’d rather be around than not. An activity partner I can fall in love with? A relationship that, if it develops, is built around doing things together, not sitting around staring into each others eyes and reciting syrupy poetry. (Maybe it will come to that, but it seems unlikely.)

So what's a nice girl like you doing in a cyberplace like this?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Most of my career was spent as a computer programmer. After a few years of part-time techie work to ease into retirement, I've now gone all the way. Retirement is wonderful. I may still do some volleyball coaching. Otherwise I'll be spending my time volunteering, engaging in neighborhood activism, and wandering around photographing wildflowers. I play volleyball and senior softball.

I’m always seeking creative outlets. I’ve designed and constructed planters for the California native plant area of the Gardens at Heather Farm. I sometimes blog and post political cartoons to Walnut Creek Patch.

My social life revolves around several Meetup dot com groups - East Bay Over 40 Singles, East Bay Walkers, and the Contra Costa Cinephiles. They're all nice people to hang out with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring stuff out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A friend who works as a police dispatcher told me that I should never laugh during the commission of a crime. I'd surely be tracked down - because I have a very distinctive laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Mostly I listen to NPR while driving around in the car. I especially like live theater and have recently enjoyed Equivocation (in Mesa, AZ), Pirates of Penzance (at the Lesher), and Pygmalion (first at Butterfield 8, then at Cal Shakes). Just finished reading Zealot after seeing an extended interview with Reza Aslan on CSPAN. Regularly attend Nerd Night East Bay.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I wonder if the kind of chemistry I'm hoping for can be captured in answers to OK Cupid questions. Maybe I've already answered too many. There always seem to be several "unacceptible answers" with even the best potential matches.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing volleyball or watching PBS.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't really have a "bucket list". Sure, there are places I haven't been and things I haven't done. But I feel so incredibly lucky just to be alive and healthy and financially secure - why be greedy and always want more?

(That's not to say that I wouldn't enjoy helping you check things off your list.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you’re an independent, intelligent, inquisitive Central Contra Costa lady, a little athletic, maybe a little bit whimsical...

... or maybe just join some of the Meetup dot com groups I mentioned above, and sooner or later we're bound to bump into each other.