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51 Belmont, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 20
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Full figured
Mostly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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*** So sorry to anyone who contacted me over the past few weeks - I have not logged on in at least a month. I took a self imposed break from digital life to finish up some artwork and other projects***.

The minute I heard my first love story,
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was.
Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.
They're in each other all along.”
― Rumi, The Illuminated Rumi

I am a creative, optimistic, intelligent, aware, loving, affectionate, sensual, easy-going Woman. I'm pretty complex and putting it all in narrative form is challenging, so I will begin with a list...I am an Artist, Hug Giver (not just trees), Seeker, Reader, Teaser, Listener, Walker, Hiker, Lounger, Color Lover, Explorer of new places - I've been all over Europe from Scotland to Spain to Greece, traveled in Morocco and Tunisia, spent time in Thailand, Japan and Hong Kong, and enjoyed the wonders of Costa Rica - and this list continues to grow.

A long term relationship with a fun, intelligent, spiritual, sensual open-minded person who has a great sense of humor. Please be authentic, honest and ready for a meaningful relationship. I am not looking for physical perfection - nor do I offer it. Physique is secondary to your awareness, intellect, kind heart and passion for life!

THE CONNECTION...The type of relationship I'm seeking was exquisitely written by RUMI, (one of my favorite poets):
“I want to see you.
Know your voice.
Recognize you when you
first come 'round the corner.
Sense your scent when I come
into a room you've just left.
Know the lift of your heel,
the glide of your foot.
Become familiar with the way
you purse your lips
then let them part,
just the slightest bit,
when I lean in to your space
and kiss you.
I want to know the joy
of how you whisper
~ Rumi

“Passion, it lies in all of us, sleeping... waiting... and though unwanted... unbidden... it will stir... open its jaws and howl. It speaks to us... guides us... passion rules us all, and we obey. What other choice do we have? Passion is the source of our finest moments. The joy of love... the clarity of hatred... and the ecstasy of grief. It hurts sometimes more than we can bear. If we could live without passion maybe we'd know some kind of peace... but we would be hollow... Empty rooms shuttered and dank. Without passion we'd be truly dead.”
~ Joss Whedon
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Practicing mindful living
Changing Careers
Creating art
Loving my beautiful children
Learning to be a better mom, daughter, sister and friend
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In-depth discussions
Working out....when I'm in the flow
and a few more things.......
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Either my eyes, smile or warm personality!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: The Glass Castle, The Memory Palace, A New Earth, The Power of Now, The Prophet, Real Boys, White Oleander, anything by Anne Lamott.

TV SHOWS: Game of Thrones, Modern Family, Shameless, Newsroom, Homeland, Parenthood, Breaking Bad, Daily Show, Colbert Report, Ellen.

MUSIC: Van Morrison! Adele, Pink, Bonnie Raitt, Keb Mo!, Jack Johnson, James Taylor, Sara Bareilles, John Mayer, Jim Croce, Bob Dylan, Black Eyed Peas, Eminem, Ray Charles, Stevie Wonder, and more....

MOVIES: This is 40; Perks of Being a Wallflower; Crazy, Stupid, Love; Juno; The Shawshank Redemption; Hot Fuzz; The Departed; The Secret of Roan Inish; The Reader; 40 Year-Old Virgin; My Neighbor Totoro; and I love documentaries.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The "next chapter" of my life
The well being of my children
Finding a deep intimate connection
Living mindfully and being grateful
Where to travel next
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing Art
Drinking wine with a friend
Relaxing by myself (I enjoy personal space)
Going to a movie with my kids
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There are plenty, but Scorpio's don't let you in this quickly!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are seeking a friend, OR a woman to develop an intimate connection with long-term possibilities - Not into casual hook-ups.

NOTE: IM on this site is hard to use on my computer. Ask and we can chat elsewhere.