I'm an ENFP. (Fairly extreme on the N)
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I also find fanciful and romanticized things really charming, especially fascinated by romantic ideas about the past. I am also the kind of person who tends to like things that would make your grandmother say "Isn't that just lovely!", like quaint country inns. I am also constantly making puns. I am well known among friends and family for my love of monkeys, and I even have a monkey necklace I made at a hippie make your own jewelry store because they mean a lot to me. I'm sort of a browsing the bookstore and hanging in the coffeeshop type of guy. I'm from Connecticut originally and I strongly identify with the Northeast, I feel like I'm kind of a mix of New Englandy and New Yorky vibes
I realize how pompous, grandiose, and elitist this profile probably makes me sound, and that's not as accurate as you might think from reading it.
I'm not really into "gay culture" or "gay pride" in the traditional sense so if you are we probably won't be a good match. I'm cool with folks who are into it more than I am, I just mean if your identity is largely based on "I'm here and I'm queer!" I do love going out to gay clubs though- I miss Town so much from when I lived in the DC area :( I especially like bi guys, and also especially like guys who are masculine and youthful at the same time, who might have sort of an endearing boyishness to them. Not looking for someone who wants me to be "the girl in the relationship"- isnt the point of being homosexual (hate the word queer by the way) that you're both dudes? I would hope to be with someone who thinks that even if we're each other's boyfriend, we can also be each other's bro. I feel like maybe I have a sort of similar view of homosexuality to the Greco-Romans. I'm definitely not the most stereotypically male guy in my demeanor or interests or anything, but at the same time I still think of myself completely as a guy and I dont think being attracted to other guys means your not really a guy. Very interested in gender identity issues also.
Interestingly, even though Im not a gamer I tend to be really attracted to them for some reason. Also like guys who are more light-hearted than I am because I take life pretty seriously, as I said, and looking for someone to balance me out.