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54 F Bellevue, WA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
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Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
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My self-summary
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Just back from Orcas Island again, where i did a lot of painting, relaxing, and taking care of a house bunny.
Now I'm hanging out in Seattle taking care of a cat. She has bunny-soft fur and likes to be pet. Unlike the bunny.

In addition to this unplanned word-of-mouth "career" of pet-sitting gigs, I'm an artist and make money at it (gasp!). I'm a happy, irreverent, sweet, witty, creative, engineering, artistic, Top/switch, silly tomboy girly-girl.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm mostly living life, hanging out, and doing stuff. Pool at The Garage, the pool at the Y or FS, or just a movie at home. Sometimes I'm working on my house, doing basic rewiring and plumbing and stuff. Not romantic enough? Well, I'm also a pretty good cook and love to show off in lingerie. Cooking IN lingerie - um, not sure that's the best idea!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being easy-going and appreciating every day. Dancing. Singing. Saying thinks. Noticing details. Seeing the big picture. Avoiding drama. Being a switch (ask me). Taking naps. Making people smile. Art. Sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say I'm cute and funny. I've been told that my face lights up and my eyes sparkle when my smile comes out :-) And my hats. I like hats.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction more than non-fiction; classic movies and film noir; bluegrass folk ska rock old school; anything not too spicy, even Thai.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) good coffee with cream
2) smiles - the most basic human communication
3) love and intimacy
4) friends and a strong shoulder to lean on
5) creating things
6) meditation/prayer/yoga or some kind of relaxation practice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Would that sketch I did 10 years ago make a good painting?
- Designs for "tiny living" homes
- Waiting for my house to go up in value so I can move to paradise
- Trying to figure out the exact location of paradise ;-)

I read a profile here where a man described his "fantasy woman," so, here's my "fantasy" (not in order or deal breakers):
- You can playfully and seductively banter. You're educated and witty and not stuffy. You'd like to meditate more and do yoga.
- You like doing projects: paintings, woodwork, sculpting.
- You like cooking dinner together, growing veggies, self-sufficiency, and maybe building a poly or line family or co-housing (or some kind of community).
- Relaxing in front of the tv isn't at the top of your list but it's okay.
- You want to travel to Switzerland so I can finally snowboard in the Alps (I have friends and a standing invitation to stay).
- You want to hold me tight after my tough day...and you want to languish in my bosom after your tough day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes a social get-together, like a party or dancing; sometimes vegging, sometimes painting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I know a man with a wife and two little girls. He was riding his bike to work and a distracted driver hit and threw him 30 feet. In a coma for weeks, he came out of it, and now has only a slight limp.

Several men responded that I should tell BEFORE meeting that I've had MS for 21 years. Sheesh, I don't define myself by it. I have sooooo much in my life: a home, enough to get by, incredible friends, a fun social life, and a bright future. The only missing piece is someone to share that with. Hey, admit it: even though you keep busy, you're a little lonely, too. Why else would we be doing this?

None of us really knows what will happen to us in the future. If, by including that I have MS, you get scared away, that's okay. I might get fewer results, but least I won't be wasting my time or...yours?
You should message me if
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Bottom line/paragraph: you're a grown-up who also likes to have FUN! To travel, play in the water, sail, maybe do yoga and meditation, spend the day at a naturist camp...ooh! lay by the campfire, go out to dinner and a play, putter around the house, and talk. (Yep, I know that last one can be a four-letter word. I promise to never start a sentence with "We need to talk...")
No FWBs, please