Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Bottom line (paragraph?): you're a grown-up who also likes to have
FUN! To travel, play in the water, sail, maybe do yoga and
meditation, spend the day at a naturist camp...ooh! Go camping, lay
by the fire, go out to dinner and a play, putter around the house,
and talk. (Yep, I know that last one can be a four-letter word. I
promise to never start a sentence with "We need to talk...")
(No FWBs, please! Unless you're really rich and have a villa in the
south of France - lol!)
I read a profile here where a man described his "fantasy
woman," so, here's my "fantasy" partner (not in order or deal
- You can playfully and seductively banter. You're educated but not
stuffy, and you're witty.
- You want to meditate and do yoga and you practice being in the
- You like doing projects: paintings, woodwork, sculpting.
- You like cooking dinner together, growing veggies,
self-sufficiency, and maybe building a poly or line family or
co-housing (or some kind of community).
- Relaxing in front of the tv isn't at the top of his list but it's
- Switzerland? Sure! (I have friends and a standing invitation). I
really want to snowboard in the Alps, just once. Okay, maybe
- You want to hold me tight after my tough day...and to languish in
my bosom after your tough day.