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54 F Bellevue, WA

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
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Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
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My self-summary
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How about my philosophy, instead? Okay, so this is like a big candy store. At some point, it's time to stop looking at ALL the candy and realize you've found the best one. Choose it. Take the time to check it out in real life and if things don't work, you're back here, no big deal.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to find my Prince...well, if it happens, it happens. I'm mostly living life, hanging out, and doing cool stuff. Pool at The Garage, pool at the Y, or just a movie at home. Want to join me?

When I'm not doing cool stuff, I'm getting my house ready to either sell or rent. It's a bit time consuming, but fun. I know how to do basic rewiring and plumbing and stuff. Not romantic enough? Well, I'm also a great cook and love to show off in lingerie. Cooking IN lingerie - um, not sure that's the best idea!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being easy-going and appreciating every day. Dancing. Singing. Saying thanks. Noticing details. Seeing the big picture. Being a switch. Avoiding drama - life has too much to offer so why bother?
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told that my face lights up and my eyes sparkle when my smile comes out :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mostly fiction (The Good Earth, Stephen White, biographies), film noir, musicals (Hitchcock, Citizen Kane, Some Like it Hot!), bluegrass folk ska rock old school (Mark O'Connor, Joan Baez, The Modern Lovers, The English Beat, Leonard Cohen, Led Zeppelin, U2, Rodrigo y Gabriela, No Doubt), anything not too spicy (mmmmm, Thai). TV: Been wasting too much time with TV, therefore, we should get out and have fun!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) good coffee with cream
2) smiles - the most basic human communication there is
3) love/sex, sex/love, love, sex, sex, love: whatever
4) a strong shoulder to lean on
5) creating things

6) and...numbered lists?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Would that sketch I did 10 years ago make a good painting?
- Waiting for my house to go up in value so I can move to paradise
- Trying to figure out the exact location of paradise ;-)

I read a profile here where a man described his "fantasy woman,"'s my "fantasy" partner (not in order):
- You like doing projects: paintings, woodwork, sculpting.
- You like cooking dinner together, growing veggies, self-sufficiency, and the idea of tiny living.
- You can playfully and seductively banter. You're educated without being stuffy. You'd like to meditate more and do yoga...WITH someone.
- Relaxing in front of the tv isn't at the top of your list but it's okay.
- You want to travel to Switzerland so I can finally snowboard in the Alps and stay with my friends over there.
- You want to hold me tight after my tough day...and you want to languish in my bosom after your tough day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes a social get-together, like a party or dancing; sometimes vegging, sometimes painting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I know a man with a wife and two wonderful little girls. He was riding his bike to work and a distracted driver hit and threw him 30 feet. He was in a coma for weeks, but came out of it, and now has only a slight limp.

Several men responded that I should tell BEFORE meeting that I've had MS for 21 years. But I don't define myself by it. I own my house, have money in the bank, a future pension, run my own business, snowboard, sail, volunteer, am an artist, etc. Yet, I've messaged with people who have very little to offer; some feel it's a waste of time to have coffee with me. One man called it off at the last minute, saying he "just couldn't deal with it."

Who's to say what will happen to any of us in our future? If, by including this, I get fewer results, that's okay. At least I won't be wasting my time or...yours?

So, yeah, been a few setbacks long the way and I've dealt with them. Now I want to share similar goals, interests and adventures with a man. Traveling, yoga and meditation, playing in the water, laying by the campfire, living a stress-free, invigorating life. I deserve it; do you?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You want to make this smart, sexy, curvy, cute, feisty, tomboy girly girl a part of your life (not just an FWB).

You don't want to "settle" nor "settle down". Dude, let your soul breathe! Look at my mischievous face and silly smile, and you'll know how awesome each day could be!