I am in a wonderful and loving, open relationship with the amazing SueZMagee and we are completely smitten with each other, we are also seeing other people and enjoying incredibly fulfilled lives. Neither one of us identifies as polyamorous. It's a big, big world with lots of interesting, intelligent and attractive people each having their own ideas, concepts, desires, needs and pleasures. To each their own. I would say above all else I'm a humanist. (I recently chatted with someone who had some confusion and a lot of questions about humanism. In turn, I found out the term is much broader than I once realized. By Humanist, I mean. I am of the belief that all human beings deserve equal rights and treatment, regardless of sex, gender, identification, religion, color, belief, background, ethnicity, or any other label or term. All human beings are unique, beautiful, amazing, and have limitless potential, and by default deserve equal rights. No one, of any background, belief, sub-set, category or any other criteria should be considered unequal, or have their rights as a human being denied. I also believe that if more people acted in accordance to the simple belief that being human brings us all together and relates us, there would be much more equality and good in the world.) Second to being a humanist, I'm a pleasure giver. I enjoy helping people experience life, find fulfillment, and reach their goals and potentials... Yes, I'm also an idealist :-)
What am I looking for? Intelligent, up-beat, passionate, healthy, open-minded, openhearted, and sex positive people. I tend to want to make long term bonds with the people I form relationships with, to whatever degree that may be. Of course, that's not to say that casual sex is not an entertaining evening, or something that is out of the question, besides...some of the best relationships can start there.
I'm also looking to build a group of good lifelong friends, people I get along with, fit well with and can go explore and enjoy life with.
I absolutely enjoy talking about the human condition, the inter-workings of the human mind, biology, sexuality, creative design, form/functionality, and nearly anything artistic. I get along great with most everyone, but tend to gravitate towards the "geeks who drink crowd" and may be found on occasion at the local "drink and draw" events. I believe life should be dynamic, ever changing and adapting...a constant learning process. Communication and honesty are paramount for me.
I find myself attracted to straight or bi-sexual women, and female couples who are intelligent, healthy, fun loving and not afraid to speak their minds. Confidence and passion are huge pluses for me.
Good friends, amazing food, great drinks, wonderful music, and amazing sex are what i seek in life. So don't be shy, feel free to message me and tell me what's on your mind, you never know, we may just hit it off :-)