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40 • Sacramento, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–90
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 8:09pm
- White, Other
- 5′ 11″ (1.81m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Aries, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on university
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)
Hello everyone! Thanks for visiting. I love to experience as much as I can of what life has to offer, and I tend to see things through eyes of wonder. I am a creative individual, and have studied animation as well as graphic design, and I dabble in photography. Form, function, and the beauty of motion, are all passions of mine. I would say above all else I follow a simple belief of equality, and human rights. I enjoy helping people. Seeing them express themselves, experience life, find fulfillment, reach their goals and see their potential... Yes, I'm also an idealist :-)
I am in a wonderful and loving, open relationship with the amazing SueZMagee However, she is currently taking a break from OKC, and her profile is not active at the moment. We love, love. It's a big, big world with lots of interesting and intelligent people out there, each having their own ideas, concepts, desires, needs and pleasures. We tend to date separately, but are not opposed to seeing someone as a couple, we are both interested in the possibility. Unfortunately, it simply hasn't been in the stars yet.
What am I looking for? Intelligent, up-beat, passionate, healthy, warm, big hearted, open-minded, sex positive people. I tend to want to make long term bonds with the people I form relationships with (to whatever degree that may be) including casual sex. Some of the best relationships can start there and develop into something both amazing and long term.
I'm also looking to build a group of good lifelong friends, people I get along with, fit well with and can go explore and enjoy life with.
I absolutely enjoy talking about the human condition, the inter-workings of the human mind, biology, sexuality, creative design, Art, form/functionality, nearly anything artistic. I get along great with most everyone, but tend to gravitate towards the Geeks who drink crowd and may be found on occasion at the local drink and draw, or Dr. Sketchy events. I believe life should be dynamic, ever changing and adapting...a constant learning process. Communication and honesty are paramount for me and I spend a lot of time working on refining these skills.
Overall I find myself attracted to people who are intelligent, emotionally healthy, good conversationalists, fun loving and not afraid to speak their minds. Confidence, honesty and passion are huge pluses for me.
Good friends, amazing food, great drinks, wonderful music, and amazing sex are what i seek in life. So don't be shy, If anything I've said here sparks your interest, feel free to message me and tell me what's on your mind. You never know, we may just hit it off :-)
- Soothing tired minds and sore muscles.
- Creative thinking.
- Communication, both visual and linguistically.
- Saving matches to my favorites and taking a week to message them for the first time.
- Creating bullet lists.
- Ohhh, and being sarcastic ;-P
I do a lot of reading for work. technical manuals, and such. So, I don't read a lot after work, at least not much these days. I'm a big fan of Christopher Moore, Umberto Eco, Lovecraft and enjoy books concerning the mind, body, sexuality and psychology, like "If you meet the Buddha on the road, kill him" by Sheldon B Kopp, "The Ethical Slut" by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy. I'm very interested in human sexuality and how it's related to society and history and a detestable system of control. I'm a firm and adamant believer in equality, and this belief spans social, economic, racial, and gender misconceptions. I believe that each and every human being, has their own strong suit and contribution to the whole, and that the most brilliant and creative idea, the most paramount changes, can come from the most unexpected sources.
I love movies and will watch almost anything, but some of my all time favorites are: Blade Runner, So I married an axe murderer, The princess bride, The iron giant, Army of darkness, and The Count of Monte Cristo.
I'm not a big T.V. watcher, but I used to watch: How I met you Mother, Big Bang Theory, Game of thrones, Rome, The Tudors, and TedTalks, all great shows.
Black Keys, Hillbilly Moon Explosion, Mumford & Sons, Led Zepplin, Elton John, Hendrix, Nick Cave, Leonard Cohen, Emily Jane White, Paul Simon, Social Distortion, The Chieftains, Flogging Molly, Nina Simone, Pink Floyd, Bobby Darin, Eileen Jewel, Death Cab, Pucifer, The Rev. Horton Heat, The Mountain Goats, Sound Garden, MGT, Eddie Vedder, Bret Dennen, Audioslave, Gogol Bordello, Pj Harvey, recently: Vermillion Lies, and a whole lot more.
SUSHI!!! I like to try new foods often, and like nearly everything I try. I have a strange aversion to cilantro...it tastes like soap to me, but I love Mexican food.
I've never been into the overly bazaar foods, you know, the ones that deal mostly with bugs.
I'm also a huge fan of Eddie Izzard......
- You want to actually meet and not just have a string of messages back and forth, forever.
- You like beer/whiskey/wine tasting.
- You enjoy finding new and fun things to do.
- You have a good explanation or made up story for why all my matches seem to live in Berkeley, Oakland or S.F.
- You like trying new foods.
- You are an open minded person and a good conversationalist.
- You love art and music.
- You'd like to tell me all the reasons you did or didn't like what I had to say on my profile..... No, really. I'm interested in knowing.
- Or just want to expand your circle of friends, get to know someone new and have a good time over a beer or other beverage.
- You'd like to teach me to swing dance, salsa, or tango.
-You're interested in exploring sexuality, and aren't afraid to ask for what you want.
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