I am in a wonderful and loving, open relationship with the amazing SueZMagee and we are also seeing other people and enjoying incredibly fulfilled lives. Neither one of us identifies as polyamorous. It's a big, big world with lots of interesting, intelligent and attractive people each having their own ideas, concepts, desires, needs and pleasures. We tend to date separately, but are not opposed to seeing someone as a couple, and are both interested in the possibility. It simply hasn't been in the stars yet. I would say above all else I'm a humanist. Second to being a humanist, I'm a pleasure giver. I enjoy helping people experience life, find fulfillment, and reach their goals and potentials... Yes, I'm also an idealist :-)
What am I looking for? Intelligent, up-beat, passionate, healthy, warm, big hearted, open-minded, sex positive people. I tend to want to make long term bonds with the people I form relationships with (to whatever degree that may be) including casual sex. Some of the best relationships can start there and develop into something both amazing and long term.
I'm also looking to build a group of good lifelong friends, people I get along with, fit well with and can go explore and enjoy life with.
I absolutely enjoy talking about the human condition, the inter-workings of the human mind, biology, sexuality, creative design, Art, form/functionality, and nearly anything artistic. I get along great with most everyone, but tend to gravitate towards the "geeks who drink crowd" and may be found on occasion at the local "drink and draw" events. I believe life should be dynamic, ever changing and adapting...a constant learning process. Communication and honesty are paramount for me and I spend a lot of time working on refining these skills.
Overall I find myself attracted to people who are intelligent, emotionally healthy, fun loving and not afraid to speak their minds. Confidence, honesty and passion are huge pluses for me.
Good friends, amazing food, great drinks, wonderful music, and amazing sex are what i seek in life. So don't be shy, feel free to message me and tell me what's on your mind. You never know, we may just hit it off :-)