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36 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, Spanish
My self-summary
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I grew up in rural North Carolina. Spent my childhood in a place where tall pine forests give way to flat expanses of green, and the farms are dotted with thoroughbreds and azaleas. And damn if I didn’t waste what could have been my prime BBQ-eating years as a vegetarian!

Probably like everyone, I’d like to date someone who is as brilliant and hilarious as my friends are. Someone with a biting wit which belies an underlying warmth and sweetness.

I am honest and it means a lot to me that the people I care about trust my word.

My politics are indeed progressive, but the hippies round here do try my patience. I like to call them hippie-crites ;)

Apparently since I downloaded the OKCupid app on my phone I am perpetually "online now".
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an evolutionary biologist and used to get a huge kick out of showing spawning sea squirts to impressionable undergrads. These days I'm working at an ed tech company, developing software that helps make student assessment more fun for teachers and less of a chore. Thankfully I am still surrounded by impressionable interns ripe for indoctrination. I am also busy with ... planning my next bike tour, hot vinyasa with Laura Camp, bouldering at the Dawgpatch ...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
remembering faces and names, digging holes, listening, running fast

I am pretty good at whitewater kayaking and bake an especially moist chocolate cake with buttercream frosting.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People seem to like my laugh, especially your mom.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: most anything by Gabriel García Márquez, Jhumpa
Lahiri, The Corrections, Elizabeth Bishop, Cloud Atlas

Just finished "Just Kids." What a joy; kind of in love with Patti Smith now.

Recent listens: Heems rapping over Vampire Weekend's Step, Blood Orange, Beyoncé, Brandy Clark

Desert Island: Time (The Revelator), Vespertine, The White Album, Black Star, OK Computer

Food: homemade carrot-ginger-apple juice, ripe tomatoes, lemon cucumbers, sweet potato tacos, fish tacos, Katsuo tataki, donut peaches, champagne gelée, chocolate truffle cookies ...

Movies: Cave of Forgotten Dreams, Last Tango in Paris, Triplets of Belleville, Dr. Strangelove, Annie Hall, The Hangover, Blue Valentine, Exit Through the Gift Shop
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to show non-scientists how cool science is, the democratization of education, fuel-efficient luxury hatchbacks
You should message me if
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-Your realism contrasts, but does not hamper, your boyish enthusiasm and appetite for mischief.
-You'd rather stay and play