Note to Men: The position of Boyfriend has been filled...for now. Not looking to start a new relationship, or lustship with another male.

Note to Females: Please keep reading. Looking to be friends. And well if something developes out of it...sweet.

{+}=| About Me |={+}:

I'm a FT Mother of a 5yo girl, PT Assistant Manager, and Undecided About Which College to Attend. Words that describe me: Self sufficient. Intelligent. Doctor. Lawyer. Psychologist. Inventive. Tomboy. Alpha Female. Liberal. Open Minded. X-Military Kid. Cultured. Girl Next Door. Sentual. Dominate/Submissive (varies). Daddy's Lil Girl/Solider. Firstborn/Only Child. Witty. Charismatic. Sarcastically fun. Smart Azz. Survivalist. Frugal. Lego Hobbist. Movieholic. Zombie Films are psychologically entertaining to me. I like to climb trees/buildings & take pictures of what I see. I'm pretty good a bowling and I love to shoot pool. I smoke while drinking responsibly. I have a flare for Interior Decorating and Event Planning. Randomness is the key to my sanity. Things I'm working on before 40:

-Career: General Office for the first 5-10yrs. Then EMT or Nursing once home life has been synced with the training and ability to work those hours. Establish my own roof once 1st career has started. (I miss managing my own home, and sleeping in non-constricting pj’s...hello boxers and a tank.)
-Family: Hopefully settle down & produce (or step-parent/foster/adopt) up to 2 more children before I turn 35, if a man who's not a member of the Marriage Strike stumbles into my life. I look forward to raising a complete family.

I'm working to support the roof over Lexi & I's heads. When possible I volunteer as much as I can. Living life the best I can on what I have, and I'm greatful that I have a job as crappy as it is I keep reminding myself "Its getting me through life, one day you'll be shiny instead of dull."

Interior decorating, dancing, cooking (when I feel like doing something fabulous), planning events, building lego models, being the best mom I can be, organizing, supporting my friends. Give me a project and watch me do wonderous things with and end result of being totally awsome, planning weddings (I was the maid of honor and my friend didn't have a wedding planner and need direction to plan hers).

Looks, then the fact theres an intelligent brain to go with it. I am both feminine & masculine, in dress and mannerisims. The light bulb above my head when I found my AHA!. The twinkle in my eye when I am inspired. My random movie voices. Just little clips here & there. The Sarcastic R-rated Witty things I say sometimes.

Books: Anything of self learning intrest: Women issues, health issues, parenting material, supernatural intrests, how to books.

Movies: The Notebook, Because I Said So, The Marine, Knocked Up. I love gross humor and horror. Fave Zombie Movies: 28 Weeks Later, Day of the Dead and Diary of the Dead.

Music: I like almost every thing from rap to country.

Food: Red Lobster sums it up. And FireHouse Subs. And the 5 Squared Meals: Hamburgers, Tacos, Salads, Subs, Pizza. Why? Because at any given time the cover 3-5 food groups.

MY DAUGHTER. An Education. My Car. My Laptop-it has all my short stories & poems, plus school work. A preparedness kit for every kind of natural disaster...including Zombie outbreaks, because I like to be prepared for any emergency.

-The future: short/long term goals. How far I am away from achieving them. How much more I need to do to get there.
-Any social upcoming plans later that week and what I should wear.

Working till 6pm, or 7pm pending on the volume of guest check in. Spending time with my daughter. Getting Lexi ready for bed. Getting myself ready to go out, otherwise its sitting at home watching movies or TV, gaming, reading, studing or working on a project.

Ideal Friend Date:

Pick one or a few: darts, DDR, hunting, fishing, building something, mini golf, go cart racing, learn a new dance style together, explore caves, put a puzzle together, play board games, glow-in-the-dark frisbee, a play, a festival, an art show, see a live band, poetry reading, museum, sporting event, take a tour of an archeological site, tour St. Michael’s Cemetery, comedy show, concert, browse a book shop.

THING I HAVE NOT DONE YET:
Gone to a Rodeo, Mudding, Paintball, Laser Tag, Horseback Riding, Water Skiing, Learn the Guitar/Drums, I've only been fishing and hunting once when I was little, Sam's Fun City,Gone to New Orleans/Mobile/Biloxi.

I live in my Paternal Grandmother's Home, I slumber in my old room which was also my dad's growing up. My time away from daily life is very limited. I like to enjoy every min of it. I won't be as much of a Clock Watcher when I'm able to afford my own roof, but when your living under someone else's and they are also your babysitter your on their time, not yours.

{+}=| Seeking |={+}:

New Female Friends to casually hang out with, I have waaay too many Guy Friends. I typically get along with all types of people, I was a social butterfly in high school. Movies, Pool, Bowling, Tennis, Coffee House Chillin, Breakfast, Lunch, Ice Cream is what I have time for right now. I try to get out 2x a week. I hope you live within a 30 mins radius from the North Central Pensacola area, gas is not $1.90 or less anymore. Less travel time = more fun time.

Side note: If you’re familiar with a woman who is self-assertive then we’ll get along swell. I know what I want, when I want it, how I want it, where I want it, and how to get it (not in the sexual way). Though Mr. Economy restricts how fast I can climb The Latter of Success, I’m still making my way to the top. I prefer to surround myself with those who are at the same level (or a few rungs above). Those who understand that I put a cap on my monthly Gas budget and Textbooks are more important then self-indulging activities (like mini road trips, Red Lobster, Broadway, Wii), so lower end entertainment it is until cost of living is more friendly. Olive Baptist Church offers a Free Gym anyone intrested in joining want to be work out buddies? You don't have to join the church, nor are they uncomfortably aggressive about inquiring of your religious views.

PS. I'm not as high maintanence as one might think. Unlike some of the other peer single moms out there I choose not party hard core. It leads to trouble and puts your childs life in jepordy. I owe it to my little one to provide the best I can and not get tempted by self indulgant activites. Its ok to be a soical drinker and smoker every now and then as long as your able to meet your responsiblities the following morning.

Miss Jennifer

PS: If your looking for something a bit more then just a platonic friendship: Well other then kissing and some light fondling I can honestly say I've never really been with another female. I'm not the type that goes from one female to another, and quite frankly in the man department I'd rather not increase those numbers. When I decide to have my first time with another female I'd want it to be with some one I can trust, who can guide me, and help me exlpore without judgment. If your into three somes that would be a bonus, my first time with you would be alone first. My boyfriend met his Ex-Wife in high school, so other then me thats the only experiance he has with women. Definatly knows what he'd doing. But during the time with his Ex he missed out on a few life stage experiances. So if you...or several other like minded friends would like to barrow him for a few hours let me know. Clothes don't have to be the only thing Girl Friends share.