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44 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 13
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
I haven't done this in awhile. and in returning I discovered how profoundly silly I find the questions anymore.

I also had an interesting thought regarding using OKC for dating. What would happen if for some reason there was an error in the software they used to calculate compatibility or if there were some glich in OKC's servers, or hardware? What if some technical genius from OKC had a bad date, or was bitter about love or dating and intentionally messed with the algorithms for compatibility? Might you end up with someone that you should not have a high compatibility rating with? Or conversely under said circumstances could someone who you actually had a high compatibility rating show on OKC a low compatibility rating? Hmmmm. Perhaps doing the whole meeting in person route is the only way to be sure.

These statements should not be taken as being bitter or being down on relationships. On the contrary, the thought about OKC dating made me giggle (yes I giggle and even guffaw) in that it tickled my sense of humor noir.

I am adverse to unabashed self-promotion. I am me. I like Sci-Fi and Fantasy - Browncoats rule! I love Karaoke, although my passion for music and singing far exceed my talent. This is the same for art.

I am good at compassion and empathy. I am good at listening and understanding people. I make an excellent profiler. My chosen profession is mental health, I do love helping people.

I tend to come off more reserved at first. I don't consider myself shy, and I do have moments of unabashed fun. Its a matter of getting to know each other.
What I’m doing with my life
I have completed my master's degree and am working in research.
I’m really good at
Watching movies, even Siskel and Ebert gave me two thumbs up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Les Miserable, The Spirit Catches You and and You Fall Down, DSM - V, The Girl Who Fell From the Sky, Shakespeare, What is Contemporary Art?, Gutai, The Iliad and Odesy, Friday, Dead Until Dark, James Carroll, The Hunchback of Notre Dame, And The Band Played On, Shibari You Can Use, Harry Potter (the entire series), One For The Morning Glory, It, Christine, The Hunger Games, To Kill a Mocking Bird, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings (series). Just to name a few.

I mostly go for sci-fi and Fantasy. I will take a good drama, I have been known to watch the occasional romance. I enjoy a good period piece. I also enjoy well done documentaries.


The Walking Dead, Dr. Who, Torchwood, Once Upon a Time, Lost Girl, Firefly.

Country, Alternative, Rock, Opera, Classical, some Rap.
The six things I could never do without
Family, the outdoors, SCUBA diving, education, friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. Too much really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been on the crew of a sinking ship
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I am interested in finding someone who has weathered a few storms in life, and come away from it more compassionate as opposed to becoming jaded. Someone who can find beauty in all things.

Also if you like wine, bourbon and going to the mountains hit me up.

Want to see a movie.

Have a long discussion about the "isms" that plague our society.

Are an artist, or musician, or have some other talent that you enjoy sharing.