"The Perfect Man (written by a woman)
He is a leader, my teacher, he displays integrity. He is loyal. He is honest. He is responsible. He inspires me. He is honorable. He is an alpha dog to the world, but a puppy with me. He is handsome. He is sweet. He is charming, he will show me his weaknesses. He is romantic, because he knows as a woman I need that. He is the leader of our family, holding to very traditional roles, but with a modern twist. He supports and encourages my goals, but not because he can't take care of me. He knows as a woman, I too have the ability to take care of myself. He allows my spoiling of him, not because he can't take care of himself, but because it makes me feel like a woman to pamper him. He will go to bed every night with the knowledge that I'm 100% committed to our life together. He will take note that no man is loved more. He will respect that for the gift that it is and protect our union until the end."
This is what I was taught a man should be. What I was taught a relationship should be. Why in the hell is this so very hard to acheive in this day and age?? I mean, is there anyone but me that still wants this lol?
I was told to add some things about me in here. Sooo here we go.
I'm tired of being single. I'm not interested in one night stands...or really even meeting people who aren't looking for a relationship. Or rather, not 'a' relationship...
I'm actively athletic, determined, consistent, honest, and loyal. I work hard at the things I do. ALL of the things I do. I'm proud of the things I've accomplished (even though I'm currently rebuilding my life, again), including the work I've put (and continue to, I'm currently recovering from a shattered collar bone) into my body, and my mind...but those things don't define me. If there was one word I would use to define me...I would choose passionate. And I don't mean sexual passion of course...though I guess that's a given. I mean passion for life. For my kids. For new experiences. For accomplishment. For success.
So, if you see something you like, something that makes you think 'Hey...this guy might be a little different...', send me a message. You're probably right...and if I can find the woman I'm supposed to be with, I'll happily spend the rest of my life proving it to her. You don't have to be creative...a simple hello will do. Just something to say to me 'hey...talk to me, I want to know more about you'. If I think we might be a match, I will absolutely respond.
If you would like to learn more 'about me', you can find me on Instagram at *CrisAnderson27*