I'll make this simple.
I've been single most of my life. Hoping to find somebody who is as passionate about me as I am them.
Definitely not the guy who hits on women. More of the guy who likes to meet ladies when it's not forced and get to know them before I make a move.
I work hard, I like to relax harder. I don't really "play hard" any more. But I vacation hard.
If I don't have something to look forward to, I'm not as happy of a person. So I try to plan several yearly trips. A snow trip to a new ski resort every year, a cruise a year, a new country every year, a yearly trip to AZ, and I would love to add a yearly camping trip.